I'll have to agree with several of the posters here...she had a very traumatic life and I feel for her... but the truth of the matter is this... it is not your problem.
I realize that you are very busy with your store... but there has to be some way you can socialize and meet other women that...
If you are a skinny guy and want to gain muscle... then my advice is to learn how to eat right first. Because you can do all the latest techniques and all the chest workouts in the world and never see any results.
I think women are notorious for changing their minds. However, you never, ever want to get into the LJBF zone because it will be very hard to get out of.
Dude,
Yes... it sounds like you wanted to belong but are you acting desperate and forcing the issue? You know that acting a little needy makes a lot of folks uncomfortable.
I think your experience at the Church social came about because of your unreasonable expectations. It seems you are...
LOL! I like that!
If you do approach the girl, your chances of success goes up dramatically.
If you DON'T approach the girl, your chances of success is zero.
I never liked taking a girl to the bar... especially for a 1st date but that is me... How about a fun meet instead or a cup of coffee?
And everything you said about this date seems a little off to me. Like DonJuan11 said, it appears this girl felt like she was ambushed...
When gifts are appropriate, then they work very well. Guys need to stop watching or reading those advertisements of other guys giving pleasantly surprised women, expensive gifts. It doesn't work in the real world.
From what I see, there are two reasons why your friends would be jealous... one is that you brag (not cool). The other is that many folks can't stand success and try to drag the successful people down to their level.
Think about it this way, the more successful you become at anything in life...
It sounds like you may be hurting a little... my suggestion is to never real that side to her. You know better to beg or cry. That will push her further way from you.
Having said all that, you should keep a line of communication open so she feels comfortable contacting you. Just say "Hi" and be...
Or you can meet for coffee. Do you both have a dog? You could meet her at the dog park... I'm sure you can come up with something more exciting than "dinner"
Yeah, some of the posters above have good points. You shouldn't be talking about your relationships with casual friends... because you never know what their agenda is like... and besides... it sounds like you got more interested in the girl after she dumped you... it is just funny the way human...
Eat lots of good fats, good protein sources and complex carbs. Two whey protein shakes a day is pretty good. Drink them before, during and after your workout when your body NEEDS protein right away. Get enough rest... because that is when your muscles grow...
My experience with women who make more than I do is some of them have hearts of gold. It really depends on the woman's personality... don't lump all career women as alpha females...
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