“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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styleman

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Got chatting with this girl over facebook, seems to be going quite well, playing her hot and cold, and she seems interested.
It's just that the conversation seems to run a bit dry at times as its over instant messaging rather than in person.
It's still a bit early to ask her out, any tips on how to keep the conversation flowing freely?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr_rogers

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styleman said:
Got chatting with this girl over facebook, seems to be going quite well, playing her hot and cold, and she seems interested.
It's just that the conversation seems to run a bit dry at times as its over instant messaging rather than in person.
It's still a bit early to ask her out, any tips on how to keep the conversation flowing freely?
You should probably try to keep online communication short. I know it's difficult, but a great time to cut it short is when she's enjoying herself most. Tell her that you need to go and meet some friends, were called in to work, whatever. The important part is that you leave her wanting more, which'll raise her interest level.

Save the longer conversations for once you meet in person (which you should ask to do sooner rather than later).
 

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Why not just say "Chatting online is ok - I'd rather talk in person though - we should get together for a drink/coffee"

If it's just some girl on Facebook why not roll the dice? If you're going to meet at a public place what's the big deal?
 

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Yeah, always meet someone in a public place but set conditions... keep in short in case she doesn't meet your expectations...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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styleman

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Well sure, but its really far too early to ask her out.
Randomly added her due to a few mutual friends, just chatted with her once...
What are good things to talk about??
 

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styleman said:
Well sure, but its really far too early to ask her out.
Randomly added her due to a few mutual friends, just chatted with her once...
What are good things to talk about??
Her.

Always her.

If the topic of conversation moves away from her onto you; reflect it back at her.
 
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