Approaching Super Cute Girl?

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

Yehh I have a problem with it and cant seem to talk to that cute girl who I know will like me once i get chatting. Just can't seem to bring myself to do it for fear of rejection and not knowing what to say.

 

[Furyguy]

Tell her you saw her on TV.

Or anything else. It really doesn't matter.

 

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

Tell her you saw her on TV.

Or anything else. It really doesn't matter.

is it seriously that easy?

 

[Asteconn]

It's just another person, matey. Approach away. My favourite line is "Hello, you look bored."

 

[Furyguy]

is it seriously that easy?

Pretty much dude. As long as you're saying something that's not boring and not retarded, you'll probably do OK.

It's not like you need to have a philosophical debate here. Jump in, say some dumb crap for a minute or two, get her name, then pop out out come back to say hi later.

You can always ask her what she's drinking. I like that one. If it's alcoholic, accuse her of being drunk. If it's not, give her **** for it. Or the old "Hey, I know you!". The possibilities are endless!

I still think the hardest part is starting the movement.

The trick I use:
Move your foot, or arm, or head, or anything, even a slight bit in her direction, and once you start moving it's easier to keep going than it is to turn back. Once you just START the approach everything gets a hell of a lot easier. It's like the hill you have to climb so you can coast the rest of the way down. Just get moving and you'll find the hardest part is over.

 

[hondo928]

Hi I'm X. I'm assuming she's already given you IOI's since you said you know she will like you once you talk to her If she's already attracted to you just about anything will work

 

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

Hi I'm X. I'm assuming she's already given you IOI's since you said you know she will like you once you talk to her If she's already attracted to you just about anything will work

Yeah i've had IOI's before. The last monday she was with her classmates behind me in the library so I thought 'yehh boi this could work to your advantage...make some eye contact'. I did and she was responsive. I saw this thing on sosuave the other day which said if the both of you make eye contact three times she wants to speak to you. I knew this and thought 'lets take this further' so i turned in my swivel chair reading the daily paper pretending to talk to my mate whilst focusing my entire body her way. I knew she was digging this cos whenever I looked up her body was leaning towards me/facing me more and was giving me some nice IOI's like REALLY scruffing up with her hair and staring at my crotch and shoes. So after all signs point to yes I still manage to have fear about starting to chat with her.

If it is as easy as people say I don't see why I still have the underlying fear

 

[Mr Autobahn]

I still think the hardest part is starting the movement.

The trick I use:
Move your foot, or arm, or head, or anything, even a slight bit in her direction, and once you start moving it's easier to keep going than it is to turn back.

LOL! I like that!

If you do approach the girl, your chances of success goes up dramatically.

If you DON'T approach the girl, your chances of success is zero.