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    Sticking Point - Getting a girl, but losing her

    It's been a long while since I first discovered this world of seduction. If not for the wealth of knowledge and advice from the DJ community, I would have tragically lived as an AFC and attempted to win girls over by laying down and inviting them to walk over me. Fortunately, I understood and...
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    The Favorite Topic

    I've been told that a girl's favourite topic is usually herself, and the best way to pick-up a girl is through small talk. Can someone then explain to me how to ask her about herself without seeming too inquisitive? How do I find the topic she'll like to share? (eg. something cool she does)...
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    Your personal BF-losing experience

    I've read the guide to cutting and some other threads from the search, but even though I'm consuming less calories than what I'm using, my body seems to find energy beyond my fat storage...
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    What are you working as?

    Come on, list your best examples on a C&F way to snub gold-diggers who only want to ask that question. Or any similar ones, ie Where did you go to college, where do you stay etc.
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    Giddy, fluttery and crazy feelings

    "Most women are love addicts. And while we appreciate the depth and richness of long-time love, there is simply nothing like the giddy, fluttery, crazy feeling we get (or rather, used to get) with a brand-new guy." from the thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=107141 And as...
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    Resolving Stand-offs

    As we know, DJs dare to make their stand even if it conflicts with HB's opinion. DJs are also willing to "next" a girl if she's a brat. However in a LTR, how should one handle quarrels? Whichever side is at fault, if the girl doesn't want to resolve it calmly because she's still in the heat...
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    what other forums do you visit?

    Just wondering what other forums everyone else visits.
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    Stylelife

    Ok, so I heard about stylelife bootcamp but merely bookmarked the link because I already had my hands full with all the articles here. Finally I've had some free time today and went to check out the site, and to my horror the earlier contents have all been cleared! Can someone in the...
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    Implying non-exclusivity

    Hey DJs, can you share how you let your date know you're not boyfriend/girlfriend yet? That you're dating around, and considering your options. I can't just raise the issue out of the blue, can I? That say "Hey you know it's just a date. I have other girls and am currently considering which...
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    RAFC on Steroids

    Hey everyone, I'm new here. I got a link to DJB and ended up discovering this whole new dimension in dating. Let me introduce myself, I'm rather good-looking, about 7/10 and the source of fun and energy in my social circle and have a girlfriend, also a 7. I may sound like an interesting...
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    Becoming an artist

    Hey everyone, I was wondering if you could give me some advice. I didn't major in art but more than once have I been complimented on my talent in paintings and drawings. They're not the modernistic abstract type but the classic "fine art" realism type. I about to put some up on eBay and to...
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    Changing Rooted Social Identity

    Hey everyone, like what you have write it's very hard to get out of LJBF zone simply because the other party(girl) already has a negative perception of you. The same could be said for social circles. How then would you senior DJs suggest a RAFC like me to adopt a new alpha male status from a...
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    The Wallflower

    How can a known wallflower become an alpha-male? If someone suddenly becomes ****y and funny while just yesterday(and the past year) he's always been introverted and shy, I'd find it very hard to change my perception of him and would instead think he's trying too hard. Any suggestions...
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