"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've been told that a girl's favourite topic is usually herself, and the best way to pick-up a girl is through small talk.

Can someone then explain to me how to ask her about herself without seeming too inquisitive? How do I find the topic she'll like to share? (eg. something cool she does)

Many girls I talk too appear uncomfortable talking about themselves. Personally, I also find it awkward when new acquaintances ask too much about me. I'd rather they tell me about themselve until I find a common topic, or about the environment around us.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes i did and it's exactly from there that i read about talking to her about herself.

can you point me to a few specific articles to re-read if you're so convinced the answer is in there then? i'd appreciate the help, thanks.
 
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