"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Resolving Stand-offs

Phrost

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As we know, DJs dare to make their stand even if it conflicts with HB's opinion. DJs are also willing to "next" a girl if she's a brat.

However in a LTR, how should one handle quarrels? Whichever side is at fault, if the girl doesn't want to resolve it calmly because she's still in the heat, should the DJ make the first step and attempt to make up? And if so, how?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Phyzzle

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If she's still in heat, mate with her -

Ok, if she's still angry, you can leave 2 hours.

Don't fake-apologize for stuff you did that wasn't wrong. It will get you nowhere. She'll come around when she cools down.
 

Phrost

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Well, what if you're the one that's wrong? I know that it's fine to apologize if you're really in the wrong, but what if she's being a brat about it(and possible rightly if it's big issue)? How best can you resolve the situation?
 

Fash

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I usually just look at her, smile and say "keep going babe. you're doing well. pushing me towards the right direction"

that is guaranteed to shut her up! women are so scared of the thought of us breaking up with them. Trust me!
 

dynamicallyidle

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1) Never let her get under your skin. Never let her see you sweat.

2) Condition her. When she starts acting bratty, just ignore her and act as if she isn't worth your time. When she's in a good mood, shower her with attention. She'll figure it out after a few bratty incidents.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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