"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Giddy, fluttery and crazy feelings

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"Most women are love addicts. And while we appreciate the depth and richness of long-time love, there is simply nothing like the giddy, fluttery, crazy feeling we get (or rather, used to get) with a brand-new guy."
from the thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=107141

And as we all know, it is absolutely true. Like what David D likes to say, attraction isn't a choice.

So, while it's easy to spark the initial attraction (personality, c&f, negs, conversationalist etc.), share your top secret ideas on that surprise "fall in love all over again" move you pull when you're a few months into a LTR.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fire away, being the unpredictable fun exciting DJ that all women love
 
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Man all this talk about love is making me insecure about my sexuality and masculinity.

Come on guys, everybody knows it.... romantic love is OUT OF STYLE YO

and everybody also knows that love is GAY. my philosophy is hump 'em, then dump 'em. heh... I'm pretty proud of myself for that one.
 

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You could say that, but if everyone thought that way there wouldn't be any kid growing up with fathers. I also think that if you're truly happy with your life, you're open to the idea of a LTR IF the right girl comes along

Surely there are DJs in LTR here?
 
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