Hey everyone, I'm new here. I got a link to DJB and ended up discovering this whole new dimension in dating.
Let me introduce myself, I'm rather good-looking, about 7/10 and the source of fun and energy in my social circle and have a girlfriend, also a 7. I may sound like an interesting person with a great life but the truth couldn't be any further.
Truth be told, I'm very introverted and a little socially reclused. I have to warm up to people before turning into my gregarious, interesting self. Needless to say, few strangers will spend a few months waiting for my "true personality" to manifest.
Here comes the problem. I've been attending this large city Cathedral for the past year. When I first went, I was a melancholic figure because of issues I was facing. That coupled with my initial shyness meant that I didn't make a good impression. As time went by, I was a familiar face with no friends and worse of all, they assume I'm just a loner and therefore need no introductions.
Now that I've learnt all this, how do I turn things around? How can a regular wallflower suddenly become energetic, ****y funny and an alpha-male when everyone else knows him as otherwise?
It's much easier to start from blank state than to become a new person when people know you as otherwise. I find it very awkward to suddenly turn from one extreme to another although I can, as I've said I'm rather cool with my close friends, but I'm afraid it won't be convincing to strangers who have been observing me.
Peace.
Let me introduce myself, I'm rather good-looking, about 7/10 and the source of fun and energy in my social circle and have a girlfriend, also a 7. I may sound like an interesting person with a great life but the truth couldn't be any further.
Truth be told, I'm very introverted and a little socially reclused. I have to warm up to people before turning into my gregarious, interesting self. Needless to say, few strangers will spend a few months waiting for my "true personality" to manifest.
Here comes the problem. I've been attending this large city Cathedral for the past year. When I first went, I was a melancholic figure because of issues I was facing. That coupled with my initial shyness meant that I didn't make a good impression. As time went by, I was a familiar face with no friends and worse of all, they assume I'm just a loner and therefore need no introductions.
Now that I've learnt all this, how do I turn things around? How can a regular wallflower suddenly become energetic, ****y funny and an alpha-male when everyone else knows him as otherwise?
It's much easier to start from blank state than to become a new person when people know you as otherwise. I find it very awkward to suddenly turn from one extreme to another although I can, as I've said I'm rather cool with my close friends, but I'm afraid it won't be convincing to strangers who have been observing me.
Peace.