"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
what other forums do you visit?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
I'm gonna take a guess and say you check out bullshido too. :wave:Just wondering what other forums everyone else visits.
Dinamo related:
http://www.dinamomania.net/forums/
http://www.dinamo-online.net/forum/
http://www.phpbbplanet.com/forum/index.php?mforum=zd&sid=547b1197af7c52173a6f65f88fe6e6a8
Web design related:
http://www.sitepoint.com/forums/
http://w3schools.invisionzone.com/
http://www.ozzu.com/
Thats about it. These are the ones I visit regulary, there are more but I visit them only when I remember.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mitch_Mustain
Don Juan
Taviii said:Interesting, you can get to now people better by the forums they visit:
Dinamo related:
http://www.dinamomania.net/forums/
http://www.dinamo-online.net/forum/
http://www.phpbbplanet.com/forum/index.php?mforum=zd&sid=547b1197af7c52173a6f65f88fe6e6a8
Web design related:
http://www.sitepoint.com/forums/
http://w3schools.invisionzone.com/
http://www.ozzu.com/
Thats about it. These are the ones I visit regulary, there are more but I visit them only when I remember.
damn you really need a life
Dinamo is my life, and web design is a passion.Mitch_Mustain said:damn you really need a life
Anyways I got about 100 posts in total on these 6 forums, I dont really have time for posting, I just search for the info I need, especialy on the webdesign ones.
Cheers!
seanchai
Master Don Juan
www.superfuture.com/city/supertalk/index.php
www.mynudies.com
All fashion related, particularly denim. And a private PU board.
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do you buy sex???AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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