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Let's see...some reasons why she didn't mention that it's her BF... Take your pick: 1. She's single, and it's just some dude. 2. It's her ex, and she probably doesn't want to talk about it. 3. It's her boyfriend, and she thinks you're a cool guy, doesn't want to ruin it by bringing up the...

Carrot and stick. It's what every single method out there is trying to do. If she exhibits behavior that you like, give her an incentive: Buy her a drink, give her a hug, laugh at her stupid joke, whatever. If not, deny her what she wants: validation, emotional bonds, an available emotional...

Stop making such a big deal out of it. In conversation, casually ask if she's seeing anyone. If you show her that you don't think it's that big of a deal, that it's just a natural part of two people getting to know each other, she will be forced to follow your lead. In any case, if she seems...

You don't even have to just try to dive straight into a deep relationship at first, because you'll inevitably suck at it simply because of lack of experience. Take baby steps and get feel out the methods and nuances of forming trusting relationships. Start off with just making new friends that...

I believe you've just learned the key to being 'charming'. I would like to see you try to incorporate your intelligence into that charming conversation personality and using both of your strengths in synergy. It isn't easy, but you might be surprised with how the caliber of women you attract...

Agreed. Put down the "alpha" act because you won't be able to keep it up forever. As soon as somebody realizes it was just an act, they'll just be disappointed and pissed that you tried to deceive them. By no means should you not learn from your mistakes and improve, but you still truly have...

Don't read too much into the verbiage of how somebody turns you down. It's not easy to say "NO" and still be nice, and most girls honestly have no idea how to do it. This girl who you met seems nice. She could have been trying to be clean and candid with you and respecting you as a man. Yes...

A lot of people who get into pickup use it as a way to downplay the pain of rejection, stating how it's "just a game". It's a good way to deal with insecurities and trust issues, but it seems like you've realized that the kind of relationships you're forming aren't all that emotionally...

Emotions are the inevitable truth. No matter how you try to lie to yourself, cover it up, or suppress it, an emotion will always exist. You seem like a logical, intelligent person. You're trying to figure out how to deal with these emotions in a way that prevents them from shaking you to...

PRACTICE. Only practice and time can get rid of approach anxiety. No matter how much you try to think your way around it, you cannot defeat your own body's emotional system. Talk to every single person that you can, even the unattractive ones. Make friends with strangers and develop a...

They are pretty easy to spot. A naturally colored iris occurs inside of the cornea, but colored contacts have their pigment on the surface. If you're looking carefully into a girl's eyes (as you should be!) you will be able to notice them. I find it to be a perfect disarm/neg to use on a...

If your religion is important to you, then you shouldn't compromise it. The tools available to you on this forum and on the internet simply teach you HOW to make something available to yourself. It is up to you to decide whether or not you want to pursue those ends. While other men might...

I wish I was a freshman again! It may be tempting, but don't worry too much about seducing girls when you first enter. Girls are especially cautious, but many are willing to test their new environment (and maybe even you!). Focus on meeting and greeting as many people as possible, even if it...

A warm welcome Welcome, Kaitron! We're always happy to have new members join the forums. Your enthusiasm and positive attitude will be an excellent asset to the community. I encourage you to post a field report or simply start by asking questions so you can start getting feedback!

You need to get face-time with this girl. Physical contact is always the trump card. If you can get face-time with her and actually attract her with your charms, it doesn't matter what some idiot is doing on facebook. It's a charmless, riskless endeavor, therefore you get little to no credit...

This thread is awesome. A lot of resentment going around and a lot of it is quite justified. It's my opinion that the consequences of feminism in the 70s has essentially leveled the playing field between genders. Gender roles have gone from one extreme to the other to the point where it's...

Double post, whoops :D

I see several issues here, bear with me... lol 1- The fact that you discount yourself first leads me to believe you have some self-confidence issues. You seem to hide behind your age as if it were some kind of handicap. The fact that you are in your early thirties should not be used as a...

I know a few guys who paid thousands of dollars for professional bootcamp sessions and I have to say, there are better ways. Form your own little group or lair and start from scratch. If you learn together, you'll have a support group that you can trust. You genuinely want to help each other...

I've met some people that have been using canned lines, and it's funny because the classic lines are basically a flag that says "AMOG me because I am new and don't know how to handle it". You can be nice by sorta winging the guy, or have a little fun by stealing his thunder. Personally, it's...