"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have any of you ever encountered another guy who approaches?

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ElStud

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Haha, well I use to think I was the only guy in the school who did cold approaches, but recently lol I've seen this George guy approaching girls and using what I think are routines(Basically, stuff he couldn't have possibly made up on his own). Today he approached a set, got them interested and I sort of AMOG'd him because I wanted to approach the set too. And I did sort of AMOG him and when I asked to "continue" his story he said he lost his place. So basically I completely killed this guys and COULD'VE taken over, but I ejected. But yeah, have any of you guys ever encountered another person that approaches and does seduction stuff?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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From where I am from.....thats a big NO. I am actually going to check it out and look around to see if there is anyone else approaching or at least talking to a girl he doesnt know before....I bet I will get to see a whole lot of nothing.
 

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I've met some people that have been using canned lines, and it's funny because the classic lines are basically a flag that says "AMOG me because I am new and don't know how to handle it". You can be nice by sorta winging the guy, or have a little fun by stealing his thunder. Personally, it's not very different when you encounter another person pulling game on a set. It's just another guy trying to chat up the girls.
 

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I bars it's not that uncommon for me to run into a "community guy". Several years ago this pretty much never happened, but about 2 years ago or so it started happening from time to time. Guys have always approached in bas and clubs, but still maybe only 10% actually do.

Where I live a lot of black guys try to approach girls with silly stuff like, "didn't you date my brother" or "don't I know you from somewhere" kind of crap, ha, but I still only see maybe 2% of white guys approaching at the most. A lot of them will talk to women, but they don't try to PU. So unless they talk daily, there is really no attempt at a PU. A lot of girls will not do much to initiate a PU, which means there are a lot of women with few options, ha, which is why so many try to pu guys online and such.
 

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This is an interesting question ElStud and I'm hoping more guys give answers to see what everyone else's perception of this is.

I'd say 10% of guys approach, maximum.

IMO, we have a HUGE advantage and corner on the market. I've known so many guys who didnt approach, so many. Even my wing is a smooth guy but his cold approaches arent strong.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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