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Child support If you feel the need to move to be with this woman be aware that if 1) she and her kids begin to rely on you for financial support and 2) she forebears her child support from the bio-father and 3) you two break up, that some US courts will hold YOU responsible for the future...

The Bartender Perspective: For the last two years I have worked in one of the nicer bars in the town where I live. Before working there I had my share of ups and downs with the ladies but I still had a lot to learn - not so much about women but about the way I am with women..... That said...

never push! Women will drive you crazy all the time and there will certainly be moments when it may seem like a girlfriend, especially one that won't let you out the door deserves a shove. My advice is never touch a girl in the heat of the moment. Not because she needs protecting from you but...

Nice work! that took balls! Don't get too discouraged, from my experience it seems that even rejections end up turning positive. Its possible, that one of those girls will really appreciate that your confident enough to approach all of them. Maybe you'll see one of them alone in the future and...

To Jariel & Sweetcheeks Thanks for the reply SC. I think that your right about having a rare opportunity with this girl. I don't know about the ultimatum though...First, I just don't find being in a relationship with a girl who is likely to be all over the place week to week especially...

A similar situation has me stumped right now too: I liked this girl for a long while but she had a bf. Recently we were hanging out and i asked about her bf and she replied that she didn't have one but that she's been seeing someone new. I always felt a strong conection with her and that we...

Ask her out. If she says "yes" shes interested. If its "no" then shes not. Its simple at this point.

I disagree with your interpretation of my priorities (though you may be just making a generalization about being relegated to the friendzone). Although I may be confused about the friendzone which I gladly admit, I'm plenty interested in having a conection with people, but that is a very rare...

I guess I haven't really ever been LJBF although you never know what lies around the next corner. Maybe it will be this girl I'm sort of into now who drops the LJBF bomb on me. Either way at least I tried to get to know her and see if something could happen. I suppose ending up in the friendzone...

This site seems to claim that once you are in the friendzone with a woman you never get out, but I've seen more than one of my bros who were just friends with great women that are very good looking turn into LTRs with them. In fact after talking with a few female friends that are hot in their...

Curious, I wrote a post a few minutes ago that is missing now. Is this b/c you think my question makes me a teen?

My folks have been married for almost 45 years and I always thought that I wanted the same thing. But it seems difficult at best to find a woman who you would want to spend the rest of your life with. Two days ago I asked my father what he thought about marriage and if, knowing what he knows...

Squirrels, I know c+f is not an insult and as I mentioned above I wasn't trying to be insulting, it just happened. I'm not looking for an explanation of c+f, I was saying "hey I messed up with this girl, how should I handle it?" I appreciate everyone that replied to my post and I'll let you...

I agree that it sounded degrading. I'm not really one to fret about things but I'm also not one to be insulting...it just sort of happened. Like I said it was meant to be a joke bad delivery and all. So, do you all think there is a need to do some damage control and appologize or should I just...

I ran into this woman that I am interested in and after hanging out with a while I decided to get going. SHe asked if I was leaving and I said that I had to get to work. She gave me a hug and i reached into my pocket and pulled out a few pieces of chewing gum and offered one to her. She happily...

I dated a next door neighbor for a year and all I can say is that if goes on for a while its gonna get messy. A common bit of advice i've seen on this site is not to date women that you work with. Well I think it could extend to those you live with (roommates) and the girl next door. That...

SO, I set up a time to sit in on one of this girls classes hoping to get a feel for what she is thinking and the night before she called to say that she wasn't certain if she wanted me to come b/c she hadn't done the reading and thought that by my being there it would draw attention to her and...

I ran into a woman I dated briefly last spring. It didn't work out and over the summer via email she mentioned that she had started to see her ex. A few days ago I ran into her again and we discussed Law School which she is currently attending. I mentioned that I am applying to schools and she...

you should simply ask her about the ring. If she is engaged, she'll tell you about it, if not she'll probably tell you that too. Don't make a big deal out of asking and it won't be one. If your trying to figure her out your spending too much mental energy on her already. Stop stressing about...

i dated a woman for a while and it didn't work b/c she was emot unavail and b/c of a misunderstanding we had. Recently I emailed her an apology for my part of things and she replied with an explanation of herself and that it would be nice to hear how I am doing. I replied a few days ago and have...