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    Girl said we’re not compatible in bed after 1st date

    Matched with this 35 yo single mother on a dating app. Met her last Friday and we had sex 3 times. she slept at my place. She's a very promiscuous woman, she doesn’t hide this and talks a lot of bs. she cheated on her husband and obviously meets a lot of men. However I texted her today and...
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    I have a lot of self doubt sometimes

    It’s been more than 3 months after my last break up and I managed to meet a few women but they were not super good looking I would say. I have a date on Friday and have another girl that consistently gives me sex. Couldn’t keep the other 2 women I dated right after my breakup because I pushed...
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    Do not build an attachment with the wrong woman

    I had a lot of time think about these things lately and there is one thing men repeatedly to that is wrong. Women can build a bond very fast with a man. Men usually don’t do that. We date a woman, have sex and spend a few weeks, maybe 2-3 months together and it usually doesn’t affect us that...
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    Do not make yourself the victim

    I noticed that a lot of guys including myself tend to make themselves the victim blaming the woman when they’re really not. She’s your ex? In many cases it’s YOU that made her behave a certain way but all we whine about is the person that we created. Whenever we argue with our ex or any woman...
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    Girl wants me to pull out instead of using condoms

    Isn’t this a red flag? We just had sex 2 times and she texted me that she doesn’t like condoms. I told her that I want to stay safe and I don’t want to have children. She thinks pulling out is safe or tries to make me think it is. I’m cautious because I already have a baby mama.
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    Double digit notch count too high or what do you think?

    https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/girl-suddenly-changed-after-1-5-years.279387/ A few weeks ago i posted this thread. I went through a lot of bad days. Met 2 girls and I’m going to meet another cute one this Sunday. I banged one girl but the attachment to my ex didn’t go away. I was...
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    Do I have a mental disorder?

    I realized a behavioral pattern on myself that always seems to hurt and destroy me. I tend to have relationships with women that give me an unusual amount of validation and attention. I use this once I know they are attached even when they behave good. I make them suffer and chase me which...
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    What’s your opinion on this picture?

    I grew up in a very traditional and strictly religious household and still ended up with wrong ideas about women but the idea that this picture represents was always in my mind. I wonder what you think about this or if there are any people who think that it doesn’t matter unless you’re happy...
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    Girl suddenly changed after 1.5 years

    I'm in a bit ****ed up situation right now emotionally and i need your advice. I've been on this forum for some times after my kids mother left me back then. I had a pretty good recovery and made progress careerwise. I drive a brand new car now and i'd say i have my **** together more than i...
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    Would you disown your children if they'd hate you due to brainwashing from your ex?

    My children are 8 ( girl ) and 4 (boy) years old. Ex brainwashed them, especially my daughter into believing that i'm a abusive man + i'm not allowed to see them because my daughter even said that she hates me in front of family court so things look bad for me. When i was seeing the kids...
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    Submissive Single Mother

    So Im dating this 20yo single mother . Found her on a dating app. We texted a bit and had our first date after and we’re meeting until now. She’s really into me and does anything to make me happy. I met many women before and none of them treated me like she does. She accepts her role as a woman...
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    Lie Detector said she’s lying!

    something strange happened to me this Sunday. im seeing this girl for 4 month now and she’s pushing for a relationship. She says she loves me etc. We visited a museum last Sunday and there was a lie detector. You could pick questions for kids, for adults or couples. We picked the one for...
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    Lost custody by court order

    I lost custody of my 2 children ( 8 and 4 yo) even though I don’t do drugs/violence or anything like that. I used the word custody because I couldn’t find a better English word for it. Here in Germany I’m still allowed to see my children every other weekend but they took all my parental rights...
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    I hate to care about women

    at the moment I’m seeing a girl and she treats me well. I text with another girl and she’s down to meet me the first time this week but I still get rejected a lot by women. just today I was flirting back and forth with someone on a dating app and when I asked her for her number she unmatched...
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    Do all women lose respect?

    All women I dated lost respect and didn’t tolerate much after a while. Some after a few weeks/months, others needed longer but eventually every girl stopped respecting me and tolerating things I did/said. If a woman is into you in the beginning she doesn’t care if you treat her poorly. If she...
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    What’s up with women who say they are demisexual?

    I guess many of you know what demisexual is. Some girls claim that they are only able to have sex with someone they feel connected with and that they don’t care much about things like attractiveness. Are they bull****ting us and if so, why are they doing it?
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    I failed to have sex with her..

    I already posted a thread a few days ago about that girl. We had our second date yesterday and when we were making out, i fingered her and she was really wet. I knew she wanted it but i just couldn't get hard. I have a grower too so i felt ashamed when she was giving me a BJ and i just couldn't...
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    I'm getting mixed signals.. give me advice

    So there is this pretty 20 yo girl i met on a dating app last week. Texted her a bit and got her number, then asked her out. She's very sweet and agreeable but acts a bit strange imo. I'm asking you guys for advice because i want to know if i'm the problem or if she just doesn't like me because...
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    Girl leaves me alone in hospital after date

    Hey guys I’m in a ****ed up situation rn. On Monday I drove 70 km to a girl that I met online. We chilled at her place and made out, slept together. The next morning my stomach hurt so much I couldn’t take it so she brought me to the hospital. I vomited and couldn’t even stand on my feet. The...
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    Why are asian women like that?

    So I noticed that there are many girls from abroad on tinder. I found out that you can change your location and changed my location to asia. Within a week I got 2-3 matches and 0 dates here in my area and that’s why I was shocked what happened when I changed my location. I literally got 50...
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