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  1. DariusTheBartender

    The Truth Book, was Niel Strauss a sugar daddy?

    so I just got and finishing reading the truth -Neil Strauss. Let me save you money & sometime, it kind of sucks. I read it knowing he got divorced and it's a blue pill beta love story blahh blah.... my question here is do you think he was or is a sugar daddy? You have these women come in to...
  2. DariusTheBartender

    "Buy me uber eats?" Red flag discussion

    Men, Ahhh it doesn't take long for the red flags to peak does it? Dating this girl for about a month, somewhat normal girl and nice, which is a hard right from my usual strippers, bartenders, bottle service, and instaslvts. So that's nice, she refereed to us as boyfriend/girlfriend which I...
  3. DariusTheBartender

    What's your acceptable wealth gap for dating?

    So this is one I struggle with.... I make anywhere from $110k to 150k a year. For some guys here that's a lot of money, for some it's pathetic, and for the trolls it's a good opener to say bullshot you're a flipping bartender Darius!!!! I was a bartender and still do occasional private events...
  4. DariusTheBartender

    Traveling without your girl?

    Someone posted the opposite of this and it made me think about my own life, give me some feedback, opinions, and a few good troll comments: I make pretty decent money in both active and passive income, and have around 2 months off a year to travel, some years more like 3 or 4. I love to travel...
  5. DariusTheBartender

    Do you have incel friends? How to motivate them?

    okay so last night in my city there were major Halloween parties (aka slvt fests) going on. My friends are all in their thirties or early forties. All of them have pretty good jobs decent-looking to really really good looking guys. yet I found myself alone with no one to Wing me and I end up...
  6. DariusTheBartender

    How many days in a year do you have sex?

    And are you single? I'm single but always have a regular or two in the rotation so Im guessing for me 2x a week, sometimes we may do it 3x in a row or more, but the act of getting naked blah blah, 2x a week sometimes more when I'm on a hot streak, or less for whatever reasons... So about 100x a...
  7. DariusTheBartender

    When do I bring up my vasectomy?

    Hello gents, Been meaning to field this question, got vasectomy 4 years ago, highly recommended if you have never tried it! :) Anyway, I've been thinking about when dating girls when to bring it up. If the girl tells me she doesn't want kids I immediately bring it up (this usually leads to...
  8. DariusTheBartender

    Sex on first date, does this change when to contact her?

    Ok, so here's my situation of the week: Met a pretty cool (or at least for now she is cool) woman Saturday OLD for some drinks during the day with some buddies (w buddies wasn't planned, kind of a last minute, i'm already out you can meet us if you want), we ended up hanging the whole day...
  9. DariusTheBartender

    When is it okay to spy?

    Recently a co worker of mine expected his wife who he's had 4 kids with was cheating on him, he hired a p.i. to follow her, AND WHAT A SHOCK!!!! SHE WAS CHEATING. who would think this to be possible!!??? Anyway, got me thinking... When is it okay to spy? On reasonable suspicions? In the...
  10. DariusTheBartender

    Who should make the first move on social media?

    Something like a had a great weekend with Jim/Jessica and a photo of you together or somewhere in your Instagram story you have a photo together that says this guy or girl is more than a friend. Generally I've left this to the woman, but there have been times where she seemed so in doubt that...
  11. DariusTheBartender

    The Double Standard........

    Ok so I dumped my FWB today... and slept with another one 4 hours later..... Before this occurred I was at happy hour with my buddy... and brought up why the FWB wasn't going to go anywhere, and I cited her sexual history.... I KNOW I AM THROWING STONES AT GLASS HOUSES, or maybe even launching...
  12. DariusTheBartender

    Wealth and dating... Do you hide your $ status from her?

    Been meaning to start this discussion and I'm sure I'll get some shat here but would love to hear opinions and discussion. I made some pretty good investments over 20 years and went from a bartender (as the screen name says) to in a very healthy but not obnoxious level of wealth. I drive an...
  13. DariusTheBartender

    Simple method for the first text to a girl to know she got it....

    I thought I'd share this basic move since I see it a recurring theme in my friends and some forum posts here... You get her number from wherever and it's time to text her, I like calling too, but especially if it's online dating or a quick encounter where we haven't made a connection I tend to...
  14. DariusTheBartender

    Why do I care that my fwb is sleeping w other dudes?

    Ok... so I am seeing about 3 women right now. I say about because sometimes I have a one night stand or a random tinder date. I went on a weekend trip w one of them. She got a little drunk and told me about guys she was seeing. The week prior she had found one of the other girls hair in my bed...
  15. DariusTheBartender

    Resources for starting day game?

    Hi guys, So some of my previous posts I've delve into this... I know I can Google the exact message but just like talking to a real woman is better than porn I wanna get real advice from the real experts (this tribe)... Lifetime bar/club member as the screen name insinuates. But tired of the...
  16. DariusTheBartender

    Spinning plates without alcohol? Where to meet women besides bar/internet?

    Greetings men, This is one I have wrestled with for years internally but now that I have this community I will pitch it to you guys. I have been spinning plates for many years now, slept with over 100 women, as well as a few good and bad LTR's. My screen name was not chosen arbitrarily...
  17. DariusTheBartender

    5 years since vasectomy, ask me anything

    Ok I'm not on here daily so forgive my replies if delayed but amongst my friends in person I hear a lot of misinformation or just curiosity about getting snipped. So I'd like to help guys here! Ask away!!! Background: no kids, never married, at mid 30s decided kids weren't for me (I did freeze...
  18. DariusTheBartender

    Is it sex addiction or sexual ability?

    Hi guys, I've thought about this for a long time but theres only a limited number of people I can talk to in person. I have a high number count of women I have been with. I've gone thru pretty crazy measures to have sex (never paying for it!) From internet meetups and going into parts unknown...
  19. DariusTheBartender

    How did I become an AFC again?

    Ok... I'll make it as short as possible. Years ago went thru the divorce machine, got red pilled, work out 6 days a week, own businesses, have a cool job, no kids, meet women w ease... I've slept with over 100 women including some great threesomes, some almost half my age. I'm late thirties. 3...
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