"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Resources for starting day game?

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Hi guys,

So some of my previous posts I've delve into this... I know I can Google the exact message but just like talking to a real woman is better than porn I wanna get real advice from the real experts (this tribe)...

Lifetime bar/club member as the screen name insinuates. But tired of the bar scene. I have zero issues w approach anxiety etc. Just wanna know where to start!

Openers, best locations, good YouTube videos or books to read?

I imagine most of my night game should carry over fine. The slight problem is my city doesnt really have a central square or heavy pedestrian blocks.... but its a big city. Do you go to malls? Coffee shops etc?

The awkward thing to me about day game is at a bar if a girl is not interested in 2 seconds I'm talking to another girl... this would seem odd to do in a cafe restaurant etc...

Ok I'll stop rambling and leave it at that... where do I start?

Thanks as always to anyone who replies
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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High end grocery places/stores. In the wealthier side of town is one of my favorite places.
Local festivals during the summer are also good.
Theres a festival in my city every weekend... feel like an idiot for not thinking of this one
 
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