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    My thoughts on women/dating lately...

    So my last LTR ended just at the beginning of the COVID19 spread in the US. That's another story for another day. However, since then I've had a lot of time for thoughts and ponderings on various things. I figured I might as well post a few of them here and see what others think: We all knew...
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    Feedback on my workout routine/progress

    I'm looking for input from those who actually know what they're talking about otherwise I can continue listening to all the 3500 youtube channels selling the dream. Summary: - Always 'worked out' (read half assed screwing around with light weights, push ups etc) but have always been skinny fat...
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    She does bite back!

    Alright, about 5 mos ago found myself a pretty good woman, became exclusive after a few months. She was super feminine, very submissive, yet smart, financially independent, in bed I could do whatever I want, however I want and whenever I want, lots of chemistry etc - and all that good stuff...
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    She has a long time male friend, red flag or no?

    A woman who seems perfect in every way (sexuality, submissiveness, etc- LTR material) who has a long time male friend with a wife/kids. They speak on the phone every couple of months to keep in touch and visit each other from different states (with their families along) once a yr (staying at...
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    More women are riding motorcycles...

    Great news for the motorcycle manufacturers but the small part of SS personality in me couldn't help but wonder if this is a result of women becoming more masculine than in the past? Even women I meet are usually into sports, hunting, weight lifting, rock climbing...than baking, gardening...
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    In real life betas do win

    Since the definition of a beta on here is someone who wife's up and becomes a provider. Here's a post from a woman on a financial board I'm on: DH retired in Feb. of 2015. I retired in 2010. Had my schedule all figured out for 5 years without him being around in the daytime. Now we have managed...
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    Texting guidelines and etiquette?

    What are your typical texting guidelines and etiquette you follow? The 3 (?) ladies here are welcome to chime in from their perspective @BeExcellent @AJ84 @sazc :) 1. First contact - I think the man should make the first contact (lead) so I have no problem with this at all, except on Bumble...
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    Approaching a woman at a restaurant

    I was just having lunch with some work friends when three women walked into the restaurant and instantly my attention drew towards one of them. They sat quite a ways away but I got two quick glances from her. So I started thinking how to approach her because she was busy in her conversation with...
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    Innocent guy almost got 99-yrs because of ex-gf

    https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2018/11/16/selfie-saved-texas-man-99-years-prison/2022832002/ ...and yet, no charges against her.
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    Zodiac signs...no, seriously!

    I've never paid attention to the Zodiac signs and always thought it was hocus pocus. However, I've recently made an observation, most women on Bumble (OLD) seem to be Sagittarius or similar signs. The typical theme is late 30s or 40s, never married, no kids (and some say they're looking for...
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    What are tell tale signs of a BPD, narcissist, bi-polar etc?

    I see a lot of these psychological conditions talked about here but I have yet to find a good summary of what the tell tale signs of these are? If I google for these the symptoms are so generic anyone can fit many of those definitions. So those who have dealt with these how do/did you know you...
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    When the ex-wife and ex-gf unite!

    So my oneitis ex-gf has been keeping in touch with my daughter, which I didn't mind since they always got along really well. Although my daughter has been kind of sneaky about it, deleting txts from my ex-gf so I don't see them (I check her phone randomly- that was the deal when I got her the...
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    She didn't confirm the date tonight...

    So this woman was eager to meet for our 1st date but I was busy and she only had a few nights available between her work etc. Anyway, last she told me was 'I can't do 6:30p but 8 or 8:30p will work'. So I responded with 'that should work, I just have to be in bed by 10ish as I have an early trip...
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    I'm listening to The Rational Male and I'm getting annoyed...

    After all the buzz around it I got the audible version, I'm on section 10 out 27...so far it's just full of fluff, WTF?! I feel like I'm wasting my time at this point. Way too much 'theory' and the whats and whys but literally no hows. It's like that guy at work who points out what all is broken...
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    Consent apps are now available...

    Not sure if this was discussed previously but I just came across this article...interesting times we live in, soon it'll be like the movie the Demolition Man. Sad...
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    Avoid mentioning other dates?

    So on a date if she asks you "how was your weekend?" or "what did you do yesterday/last night?" etc Do you make something up if you had another date? I usually say oh I met some friends for drinks/dinner etc.
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    "A drink sounds better than coffee..."

    I asked her out for coffee, she says she has some availability this weekend but a drink sounds better than coffee. I've only had one other woman do this before and I accommodated...but despite what I thought was a good date she ghosted me. So this time my gut says to stick with what I proposed-...
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    Red pill detox on Reddit

    I just happened upon this via a google search on who is Rollo. I personally have no absolute opinions on any of this stuff - the colored pills or the detox from them. I just cherry pick whatever makes sense to me.
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    Which one of you is this? lol

    LA’s ‘Dine-and-Dash Dater’ faces prison after sticking dates with checks https://fox5sandiego.com/2018/09/08/las-dine-and-dash-dater-faces-prison-after-sticking-dates-with-checks/
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    Funny situation - matched with a friend of my plate

    Over the weekend I got a few matches, last night started looking through them bam! first pic of this match was with one of my plates lol She said Hi in the opening message, I haven't responded to her yet. I think I'm going to pass on the match because I like my plate better but I can't help but...
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