"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Feedback on my workout routine/progress

HankHill

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I'm looking for input from those who actually know what they're talking about otherwise I can continue listening to all the 3500 youtube channels selling the dream.

Summary:
- Always 'worked out' (read half assed screwing around with light weights, push ups etc) but have always been skinny fat. Desk job doesn't help.
- A couple of yrs ago I weighed 157lbs on a good day on an almost 6ft frame because I couldn't eat even 1500 cal per day, I felt full. In clothes everyone, including women, thought/said I looked fit but I knew the truth, I just hid it better.
-About a yr ago I cleaned up my diet, started lifting heavier (though didn't stick to it consistently for various life reasons) and started eating more, 1700cal, then 1900 then 2200. Weighed 172lbs after that. Unfortunately my BF% went from 18% or so to 22%. On the plus side my strength improved as I kept pushing myself with heavier weights. More on this later.
- Recently started cutting (eating about 1600-1700) while not lowering the weights for the big compound exercises too much. I'm now 166lbs and BF is around 20%.

Goals:
- Cut BF to about 14% (mostly 90% of the time eating chicken, broccoli, kale, sweet potato, apples, bananas, kiwi, sardines, milk, cottage cheese, eggs, occasional rice).
- Put on muscle, show definition/separation...I really don't care for the strength or 6 pack abs. Just going for looks where my arms can fill the sleeves and chest sticking out more than the belly similar to the attached pic.

I've started to lift less weight in favor of more reps on my arms day. But I still lift relatively heavy (for me) for the 3 compound exercises. I do the compound one day, arms next day, skip a day, then back to compound and so on.

Questions:
Am I on the right track with my workout? too much/little volume/reps/set?
Should I cut the calories more? Edit: Lately trying intermittent fasting too. Stop eating around 8pm and then don't eat until noon. Except for one cup of coffee (with cream/sugar).
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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