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    Should I wait for her to call me?

    This girl that I'm dating cancelled on me Saturday. Said something came up and she couldn't got and that she was sorry. We didn't talk again til last night. She contacted me and was like 'hey, are you mad at me?" I said, no, why would I be?" She didn't believe me and went on to say she was...
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    What to do if you are curious about how your romantic interest feels about you?

    And your relationship? I know that we are supposed to let females bring up the whole 'committed relationship' thing or express their feelings. With my girl I want to know how she feels about me. And what she thinks of our relationship. I want to know where she thinks we stand with eachother...
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    My ex-girlfriend who cheated on me left me a birthday card...

    For those of you that remember my threads, my last girl and I got in a big fight and I told her not to ever talk to me again and I left it at that. That was like 10 days ago and I haven't talked to or seen her at all, just like I wanted. (I also found out like 2 days later that she had had sex...
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    If she doen't do something small that she said she would do....

    Do you bring it up or act like you didn't notice. Like, if they say they will call you back the same night and they don't. When you go out the next day do you mention it or just act like you didn't notice? I ask because it seems to be two sides to it. Like, if you mention it it could show...
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    Is it inevitable for relationships to become mostly arguments after a certain point?

    I always hear about how relationships are all gravy in the beginning. I think it is that both parties are basically afraid to argue with eachother because they are still trying to, I don't know, win the other's heart. I experienced this myself. When I hit the 6 month mark with my last girl...
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    Do you get more benefits as sa boyfriend than as an interest?

    I've been dating this girl for a little over a month now. We have made out a few times and things are going really good. Her interest in me has really seemed to pick up over the past few days (calling me almost every night and having my picture as the background of her cell phone). Anyway, we...
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    How do you get over a female?

    I've moved on from my last girlfriend. I truly have. And she has too. But it still makes me uneasy and kinda pains me to see her with someone else. And I suspect she's having sex with some other dude (she was my first, and I hers) right now (cus of something she said). I mean, I'm perfectly...
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    Simple question: Do you wait for a girl to call you if they said they will or what?

    Couldn't really grasp the question in the title, so I'll tell you what I mean. Couple of days ago this girl I'm dating asked me if I could help her and her cousin with a car wash today. I said sure. Last night I called her and asked her when and where did I have to be today. She said "I'll...
  9. J

    Me and 'my girl' hardly ever talk on the phone....ever.

    Coming from a year+ long relationship where me and my girl would talk just about EVERY night on the phone for like an hour or more, it's kinda weird to me now that I hardly ever talk on thee phone with this new girl I'm seeing (been dating for a little under a month now) We've gone out on...
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    Do you let the female ask you out on dates/outings from time to time?

    Let's say if the last 2-3 dates/outings you went on with your girl were brought up/proposed/planned by you. Should the next time you go out be asked by her?
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    What do I do about her not being fully over her last boyfriend?

    This girl I'm dating. She really likes me. I know she does. She's said it herself and our usual friends have told me that she really likes me and talks about me. Anyway, we;'ve been on two dates. Remember I was asking aboiut kissing on the first date? Well, on the second date, I didn't go in...
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    How often should you ask a girl out?

    I went on a date with this girl yesterday and we had a great time. She's going to my prom with me, which is May 27th. Should I ask her to go out with me again this weekend or should the next time we go out be prom day?
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    Is it OK not to kiss on the first date?

    I went on this date with this girl I've known for about 8 months. We know eachother from this program that we both go to every Wednesday. Anyway, we went on a date today. From 12-5:30 cus she had a babysitting job to do at 5:30. Anyway,. she was all smiles the whole time and we could tell we...
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    How often should you call or text a girl?

    I'm talking to this girl and we are going out on a date this Saturday. Last time we talked was on the phone two nights ago (don't worry, I keep it brief). I don't really feel like talking on the phone, but do females think you are losing interest (or wworse, lose interest in you) if you don't...
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    Any of you have a friend that you let all your AFC thoughts out on?

    I know what I need to do to get girls, and I'm getting them fine. But, I still have half the mentality of an AFC, I just don't let it show. I know I have this one female friend that I'm real cool with and I always tell her about my dilemmas and insecurities and my worries about a...
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    How long to stay on the phone when a girl calls you?

    I know that us guys should only really call goirls to set up dates and stuff, but what about when they call you? For example, this girl I'm talking to just called me and I talked to her for about 10 minutes before saying I had something to do and for her to call me when she got home (she's on a...
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    Should I ask this girl to prom?

    I go to this program every week and this girl I know is in it. We have been friends for about 8 months now (but I have never talked on the phone with her or her with me until this week and that was to set up our date this weekend) and we only see eachother that one day out of the week, so even...
  18. J

    Probably not too many people ask this, but how do I get a girl to STOP liking me?

    I've had a few cases (5, I think) in the past 2 or so years of my life (3 of which are still going on) where I don't like a girl and she really likes me back and I don't know how to just get her to leave me alone. I think I am more of a 'DJ' with the girls that I don't like. Because, with two...
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    Are the movies OK for a date witha girl I've known for a while?

    I go to this program every week and this girl I know is in it. We have been friends for about 8 months now (but I have never talked on the phone with her or her with me until this week and that was to set up our date this weekend) and we only see eachother that one day out of the week, so even...
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    What do I do now to keep this girl I'm interested in? (Summary included)

    This weekend I went to visit Stanford from Thursday to today (Sunday. These are the events that took place: LONG VERSION I'm just gonna copy and paste the AIM convo I had with a friend, telling him about it just a few minutes ago. In other words, I'm too lazy to cut out the screenname...
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