I've had a few cases (5, I think) in the past 2 or so years of my life (3 of which are still going on) where I don't like a girl and she really likes me back and I don't know how to just get her to leave me alone.
I think I am more of a 'DJ' with the girls that I don't like. Because, with two of them I flirted a lot and acted like I liked them (I think I did at first) and when they started liking me back I realized I didn't want it and I started ignoring them or seeming distant. The other three the same thign but I actually made out with them and then decided I don't like them....
None of them I've been in a relationship with.
Anyway, the most urgent one is with this girl at my school. We liked eachother in 10th grade (I'm in 12th now) and were flirting and whatnot but she's really naive and I kind of pulled away when I learned that her idea of a date was going to church together (I know, I'm terrible). Ever since then she has been trying to talk to me. She has my phone number (both cell and home) and my IM screenname and I never gave her either.
And, her friends have been bugging me for a while to take her to prom!!! She's always IMing me and talking so much when I obviously don't want to talk and she keeps trying to talk to me on the way to school (we usually run into eachother). I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I already told her w hile ago that I didn't like our conversations (she's white and I'm black and she said something that offended me) but that just made her call me and apologize and try harder.
Another girl lives all the way out in LA (I'm in DC) and we met at Dartmouth and we made out (this is NOT the same girl at Stanford, the one I actually liked). We danced a lot at the party the night ebfore we left and I got in the mood and we made out. Big mistake. She immediately thought we were like together or something, even saying stuff like she's so lucky to have found me and that she wants me to come to her prom. I decided to go to Stanford. I think it hurt her when I told her my decision and she even tried to convinve me to go to Dartmouth.
But she still IMs me and talks like we are together and I told her way back when we were at Dartmouth that if I go to another school, I'm not interested in a long-term relationship.
At Stanford I made out with this girl, pretty much the same situation as the Dartmouth girl. Next day I started seperating myself from her because I lost interest fast and she just chased me harder. Some of you may recall me thread about it....
So, how do I get these girls off my back without hurting anyone's feelings? Also, I don't want to make anything up like I'm gay or that I have a girlfriend or say something to scare her off like "I only date girls who f*** on the first date" because that stuff can spread to other girls and give me a bad rap.
So, yeah, on a site about how to get girls, I want to know how to get rid of them. Thanks.
I think I am more of a 'DJ' with the girls that I don't like. Because, with two of them I flirted a lot and acted like I liked them (I think I did at first) and when they started liking me back I realized I didn't want it and I started ignoring them or seeming distant. The other three the same thign but I actually made out with them and then decided I don't like them....
None of them I've been in a relationship with.
Anyway, the most urgent one is with this girl at my school. We liked eachother in 10th grade (I'm in 12th now) and were flirting and whatnot but she's really naive and I kind of pulled away when I learned that her idea of a date was going to church together (I know, I'm terrible). Ever since then she has been trying to talk to me. She has my phone number (both cell and home) and my IM screenname and I never gave her either.
And, her friends have been bugging me for a while to take her to prom!!! She's always IMing me and talking so much when I obviously don't want to talk and she keeps trying to talk to me on the way to school (we usually run into eachother). I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I already told her w hile ago that I didn't like our conversations (she's white and I'm black and she said something that offended me) but that just made her call me and apologize and try harder.
Another girl lives all the way out in LA (I'm in DC) and we met at Dartmouth and we made out (this is NOT the same girl at Stanford, the one I actually liked). We danced a lot at the party the night ebfore we left and I got in the mood and we made out. Big mistake. She immediately thought we were like together or something, even saying stuff like she's so lucky to have found me and that she wants me to come to her prom. I decided to go to Stanford. I think it hurt her when I told her my decision and she even tried to convinve me to go to Dartmouth.
But she still IMs me and talks like we are together and I told her way back when we were at Dartmouth that if I go to another school, I'm not interested in a long-term relationship.
At Stanford I made out with this girl, pretty much the same situation as the Dartmouth girl. Next day I started seperating myself from her because I lost interest fast and she just chased me harder. Some of you may recall me thread about it....
So, how do I get these girls off my back without hurting anyone's feelings? Also, I don't want to make anything up like I'm gay or that I have a girlfriend or say something to scare her off like "I only date girls who f*** on the first date" because that stuff can spread to other girls and give me a bad rap.
So, yeah, on a site about how to get girls, I want to know how to get rid of them. Thanks.