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    How Jason Sudeikis won over Olivia Wilde (PUA Stuff)

    Just saw a video on my facebook feed where actress Olivia Wilde is on Howard Stern's show talking about how comedian Jason Sudeikis (of SNL fame) won her over... ...and, having listened to it, it definitely sounds like some PUA-type stuff. At the very least, the techniques he used go against...
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    10 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex

    Hey all: Soooo... lemme start off by saying: some people are going to read the title and automatically think: "what a waste of time! Why would anyone want to get their ex-girlfriend back?!?" And believe me, I agree. In fact, since I've started giving relationship advice, the one thing I...
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    Charlie Sheen

    Hey guys - So.... heard the news about Charlie Sheen this morning and decided to do a podcast about it! I'm also recording it as a GOOGLE HANGOUT - if you want to watch, simply click the link in my signature - it starts at 7 AM PST (i.e. in about 22 minutes). I'll also be sharing my thoughts...
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    From the Other Side of The Dating Matrix (i.e. Why I give "Warped" Dating Advice)

    Hey guys, it's Harry - first time staring a post on the new-looking forum! Anyway... I have been posting comments on other people's pages since the forum came back, much like I was before it changed over. What I've noticed lately - as was going on for, oh... we'll say YEARS on here - is that...
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    I don't care about the "WHY," I just care what works

    Hey guys, Harry here: I just wanted to post up a mini-post up because... well, I haven't posted in a while! I've been so busy doing dating coaching (which you can find out more about at the link in my signature) and creating an online course for getting a girlfriend, that I haven't had time...
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    The Danger of Becoming "The Hero In Your Life Story"

    Here's a concept that may be new to some of you: One of the reasons you may be having a hard time in your dating life is because humans are their own self-preservation machines. Indeed, every action or thought we have seeks to (a) keep us alive, and (b) keep our brains in the disillusion that...
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    What's the #1 Mistake You've Found Yourself Making When You First Start Dating a Girl

    Hey all: So, my dating life today is much drastically improved from when I first started dating in high school. These days I'm confident, I know what moves to make, and I've gotten to a place where women just don't phase me, which has definitely helped them to find me more attractive...
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    A girl w/Lots of Guy Friends vs. A guy w/Lots of Girl Friends

    Hey all: Wanted to post an interesting question to the forum: I was recently reading another post where a guy was questioning how he should feel about his girlfriend having a lot of guy friends. This is a topic that comes up quite often on these boards, and the overall consensus is that a...
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    The #1 Way Movies & TV Shows Mess Up Dating for Guys

    Hey all: So, I'm doing a podcast about this topic later in the month, but it was in my head now and I felt the need to type it out. I've had this thought for years actually, and I see it time and time again in movies and television shows and have come to realize that what I'm about to tell...
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    Woman Cheats on BF, Calls Him and LIES About It (A Real-Life Story)

    Hey guys: Sooo... yeah, the title probably isn't all that shocking, but this story just happened this morning and I felt the need to share it here... When I'm not on these boards I do a lot of other jobs, one of which is being a ride-share driver. This morning I got a beep on my phone to go...
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    My 1000th Post + A Special Treat For All Of You

    Hey guys! Welp, this is my 1000th post on these boards, so.... yay! Yep - after looking at my stats about a week ago, I realized I was only a few 50+ posts away from hitting the 1000 mark. Most of those postings have been me giving advice to people in various posts, with a few ones started by...
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    Would You Let YOUR Girlfriend Travel 'Round the World With Another Guy?

    Hey Guys: I don't know if you've seen this story or not (which you can read HERE), but if not, here's the short version: A Canadian guy named Jordan Axani had purchased an around-the-world trip with his girlfriend named Elizabeth Gallagher. She broke up with him a month or so before the trip...
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    How to Work "No Contact" To Your Advantage (a Mini-Tutorial)

    Greetings, all! So, one of the major concepts talked about on these boards is the act of going "No Contact" on a woman. However, in reading many of the postings asking about how NC works, it's obvious that many guys still don't quite get 3 things: 1. When to use it 2. How to use it 3. Making...
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    The Phone Should Only Be Used To Set Up Dates

    Hey guys: I decided to make this post stating the seemingly obvious because, as of late, I've been reading post after post of different guys having the same exact problem. Most of them read like this: "So, I got a girl's number the other day. Soon as I got home, I started texting her/calling...
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    The 3-Month Guide to Getting a Girlfriend - What Question Would YOU Like Answered?

    Hey guys! Okay, soooooo... those of you who have gone to my website recently know that I finally released a program on how to do online dating (and if you haven't, link is in my signature). The next thing I'm going to be putting out is a video course on how to make a woman your girlfriend in...
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    How Do You Remain Positive in the Face of Dating Hurdles?

    Hey all: Just did a podcast about how a negative attitude towards dating can affect your success. I have found that a lot of people on these boards are constantly bagging on women, or calling them slvts or saying how manipulative they can be... personally, I've experienced all these things...
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    What things do YOU do to make a girl laugh on a date?

    Hey all: Just did a podcast about the SECRET to making a girl laugh, and was curious as to what other guys try and do to get her laughing - specifically, stuff that's actually been effective in making her laugh and increasing her interest. I'd love to get feedback from you guys about what's...
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    VIDEO: Texting Sucks Pt 2 (Brigham Young University Study + Links to Back It Up)

    Hola! Sooooo... I posted up a video yesterday featuring a girl who was complaining about text messaging (which you can read/see HERE). I did it just to give proof to guys on these boards that there ARE women out there who, contrary to popular belief, do NOT want a guy communicating through...
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    VIDEO: Texting Sucks

    Hey, Beating a dead horse into the ground, but... for all you people that say "oh, girls in today's generation are all about texting, you have to text them to reach out to them, otherwise they won't want to talk to you, their mouths don't work and they only know how to communicate with their...
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    What Questions Do You Have About Online Dating?

    Hey all: Soooo, I'm in the process of putting together an eBook about online dating. It's going to be pretty extensive, and thus far I've already got 5 of the chapters typed up. I did online dating for a number of years and went from being just "okay" at it to being able to score 5 to 7 dates...
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