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Thanks for the positive responses. In regards to the marriage license, how legit is it that NOT signing it validate any consequences in the event of divorce? Or better asked, me not signing the marriage license does what exactly? We are paying for our wedding, instead of our parents. And...

Brother, alot of guys have this dilemna... dont beat yourself up about it too much. you are making AWARE of the issue, which is the first step to fixing it. Start taking notice on where/when/why...HOW you are meeting these women. Its a strong indication of the problem if most of these women...

I disagree... I cant see her approaching him "setting the frame" in a positive direction for him. I was victim of this for many years... I ALWAYS waited for the girl to approach me. ALWAYS.. do you have any idea how many women I have missed out on because of this. it also gives the...

Excited about the new forum.. I think it provides a "voice" to this board that has been missing. First post in a very long time. I think its been almost 2 years since ive threaded about my personal life or anything for that matter. ALOT has transpired since then. Purchased my first...

I have to disagree Prettyboy... I guess this all really depends on what your definition of "doable" means. MAINTANABLE is really what should be asked. I think anyone can at first get another female outside of their marriage. Hell, some women even find married men attractive simply because...

My fiancee' is a bartender, and thats actually how we met. There is no big difference between bartenders or any other woman you are TRUELY interested in. the only distinct difference as far as APPROACH is that the bartender is more than likely ready to aggressively push you off...

In my experiences, ive always naturally built my social circles. I dont know if building social circles at bars really pay off. Ppl you tend to meet in bars, tend to be the only place that they gather most often. What activites do you enjoy? if there are commonalities, then you have a...

I agree with 5string, but the reality is temptation is real. we all fight temptation, and none of us above it. though we have a forum like this one to help one another grow, the truth is forums like these could stunt that growth. the true message consistently gets buried behind "how to get...

DjVelvet... The overwhelming response seems to lend towards the fact that this is probably not the best situation to have put yourself in. In efforts to stay on topic "is it doable", the simple answer is ...NO. it is next to impossible to keep a healthy, strong relationship at home, while...

Half, To assume she completely flaked on you in a matter of 24 hours is not uncommon, but i ask .. why do YOU think this happened? is there any other information you can provide

tomato-toemotoe, the irony in your name speaks volumes to your mindset as well. your nitpicking here. its all the same difference. she broke up with you, not to mention in a fashion that would indicate that she cares nothing about your feelings considering she did it via text after 2 years...

Like Solo said, you definitely are throwing YOURSELF out the game before it even starts with the mindset you have. This is why I think INNER game is so much more important than anything else. Though what you mention holds SOME relevance, it shouldnt be an obstacle. How is it when you see a...

If it were me, I wouldnt have a problem with this scenerio. I, unlike a lot of posters here, believe men and women CAN be friends. However, me and my female friends would never go out alone. Not because we arent "allowed", but there really isnt a reason to. Also, all of my female friends...

I agree, that comment above is both constructive and ideal. I wasnt referencing that particular comment. A noob who wants to pursue a LTR with a BPD witch, is a bit different. In that scenerio, I would give my "advice" and he would have to make his own decision, and deal with whatever...

There was a study ( cannot recite the source) that showed SINGLE men had a higher rate of death than those married. Of course alot of factors can be at play, but I still found that interesting. In relation to your question, I think that success is defined by the PERSON themself, more than...

I think women/men/whomever only add as much VALUE to your life, as you are willing to let them add. A women should compliment your life, not be it I hope thats not the common mindset. To have given up, accepting complacency. I dont think thats Karma's, or hopefully any mens' destination...

I think its great you are keeping an open mind, but be careful what advice you take from people Alot of ppl on these type of forums do more talk than walk. One of the things Ive never understood is why ppl feel it necessary to DQ a women with a child because of her "availability". Would...

Icks, It seems like youre giving him a really hard time about this...?? We dont have to agree with the choices some of us make, but I would think some of us who have been around for sometime, would support each other. Titty said it best. Most marriages these days mean absolutely...

having a wonderful girlfriend is one thing, however making a decision to do something that you really dont want to do is another. Unfortunately, this relationship may have run its course. I dont imagine that this woman will "suddenly" come to terms with your decision, especially if this...

Congrats Brother! Im sure you were aware by posting this on the forum would inevitabley return a negative response from some posters. That being said, im sure you could give a fvck. This is the same reason why you have the balls that some of these other posters dont to do what makes you...