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first off, dont tell her you want to "take a break" take a break = BREAKUP Sivler, all you can do is be as honest with YOURSELF as possible. There is no good that will come from waiting around to "break up" when you think its sensible. By prolonging this you will only start to grow angry...

I dont think that has anything to do with it. you gave very mundane questions and you got mundane responses. Ask yourself, did you approach just to approach? Did you ask the questions you asked simply just to.."ask"? There was no sincerity in your questions, and even if they were, its so...

you have already lost if your focus is attempting to DEVALUE this other guy. your mindset is completely wrong. focus on your value not his. when you value YOURSELF, you dont let it seem acceptable for her to brag about some other guy while shes out with you, on YOUR DIME for that matter...

Being from Cleveland, i can tell you that Lebron is now the most hated man in cleveland sports history in front of Art Modell. Let me explain why before you tell me that us Clevelanders are just bitter... People in Cleveland are not "upset" that he decided to leave. this is his choice. Go...

TM... its been awhile brother. Ill tell you something.. ignorance is bliss sometimes.. aint it? Back when we didnt KNOW the things we said wrong were actually..wrong. Or atleast didnt view them that way IMO, i dont see what you said as a big deal. you asked her those questions for...

first, the fact that shes 21, the rules only change in the OTHER DIRECTION. I would assume that she is more sexually active at 21 than she would be at 27. IMO I would take what she "said" with a grrain of salt.. .. doesnt mean a thing. her ACTIONS are the only thing you should be...

:up: Great Post brother!

I get it COD.... By claiming that your looks are the essential tool to attracting women, it makes it all that easier when they are simply... not attracted. when women focus only on your looks, You can give yourself that false sense of security knowing that you cannot "control" your looks...

you dont even realize it but you are already a step ahead of alot of guys. Being able to approach women and even ask them out. it seems foolish, but alot of men have approach anxiety and cant conquer this simple feat. why do YOU think this is? honestly, what reason have you given yourself...

i agree with kailex.. firsxt, it had nothing to do with the club. the "party girl" didnt even invite you, her friend did. it sounds like something may have happened, or didnt happen during the date. HESITATION - never a good thing brother. a confident person doesnt hesitate. he...

"FALSE FRIEND ZONE"... is the very reason why some men fall into the real "friendzone" at some point. MISSED OPPORTUNITIES IMO, there is no reason why a man should be sitting back not doing anything when he wants something, playing friends when he really wants more. would we agree this...

asid.. i agree with some of the advice given to you..... - Jophil believes that it was over at "guys just want sex" and at that point you were "off the menu". GOOD POINT - Danger and a few others believes it was a sh!t test and you should have plowed through it . GOOD POINT We can...

Forty.. what difference does it make WHO you were laying with? Ill let you guys debate whether or not its pointless to lay naked vs clothed.. my concern for YOU forty, is the frame of thinking that this situation should be changed based on WHO you are laying with. isnt a waste of time...

CONFIDENCE that plays a signifcant part in why you see "6's and under" display a different reaction than what you consider to be "7's and up" Negging a women who is already self conscious doesnt work as well with a women who is absorbed in constant reminders of her "looks" by no means...

Squrrels is explaining the crux of your problem. (i need to spread some reps first brother, but great advice!) YOU.. i would pay close attention to what he is describing. the "FAKE it to you MAKE it" only applies for so long. Especially in an LTR. if shes beginning to actually...

read this.. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134611 its not so much the '****y" that the women are attracted to, IMO. its the fact that there is a confusion on your intentions. it draws a mystery to what your expectations are to an extent. and i didnt see this american...

you DONT try to "re attract" her back. dont spend any time or energy on focusing on getting her back. thats the problem that men have. they believe that they can wave a magic wand or do something "special' that will make things go the way they THINK they want it to go with women. you...

to answer your question, NO, the problem is not that you are "nexting" to fast. the problem is the lack of effort you put in. you didnt "NEXT" her, she nexted you. why didnt you make a move? As far as she was concerned, all the signs were there. she ended up at your house. she clearly...

the hard part is to walk away. you have already did this, congrats brother. to answer your question. I personally DO NOT think its okay to have sex still. atleast not for an extended period of time. its sooo easy to fall back into the same horrible cycle you just left. Plus, if things...

when you stop concerning yourself with CONVINCING others that you are a catch, is the ONLY time when you actually become ..a "Catch" believe me brother. i have been there. being a catch is all inner game. its a mentality, not the way you act, or what you say. and based on your post you dont...