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i dont think you understand what im saying. or maybe my situation is more complex. eitherway, everytime me and this girl breakup, shell only text a few times a day and call me a buncha times from blocked numbers or random numbers until i pick up. its like her attempt to stay in my life while i...

anyone else have a problem where the girl your seeing wont go away and is completely crazy to the point where you gotta change your number?

so ive been caught in probably the worst situation possible. Ive been seeing this girl for almost 4 months and weve been on/off in a relationship for a month now. every week she breaks up with me for no reason and the next day shes saying she still wants to be together, few days pass and were...

So this HB ive been seeing is starting to get serious with me, shes really the biggest b!tch of em all but for some reason i think its awesome because i was able to sort of touch the most heartless girl around. The only thing is, shes starting to really test my boundaries by trying to put me...

I dont think what im trying to say is that you should change your friends for some silly girl but that you should be more careful about who you associate yourself with. Of course a good friend will always have a spot over some girl but if you want to completely make yourself a better person...

Just found out how important *good* friends are when it comes to girls. By this I dont mean the friends who always have your back but the friends who are recognized by the general society as *good*. You can have social proof but theres also good social proof and bad social proof and I think more...

Wondering how to get this girl off my back. Been seeing her for about 2 almost 3 months now and everytime she disrespects me or plays some stupid game with me, i walk out cuz im done with that crap. Shes a HB 8-9 basically one of those high maintenance girls whos spoiled to death by her parents...

Be different and act distant, she may want all the attention from the guys but by being different you give her something to chase and wonder about. You must stick to this strategy though if you want to bang her. I tried the same thing with this girl ive been seeing for the past month and she...

aha I had the feeling all along that this chick was just messing with me. I honestly have this idea its because a few months ago I made out with her bestfriend at my buddys place (got her all hot n horny) and after she gave me a ride back to my place (her thinking shes gettin my d!ck) I never...

Im not worried about me breaking the NC. I am 100% sure i can manage life without her. I just dont get how if you "dont like someone" you can still try and make them feel the pain. In my eyes if i didnt like a chick i wouldnt even bother with trying to mess with their head, is this girl just an...

So i recently started no contact with this HB ive been seeing the last month. Basically things between us started out well but somewhere long the line I got the feeling she lost interest (probably me going a little afc) and she started to try and use me/play me and I caught her, called her out...

i realized this after i even posted, just rereading what i typed. shes clearly playing mind games to use me. its no problem for me to walk away and thats the confidence i have. Im a nice guy but i have no problem walking out when i get disrespected. I guess i let infatuation get in the way of my...

god that was weak.

wow thanks jariel i like your take on it

thanks for the replies. some really good stuff. I remember running into this same question with my last girlfriend when i was a complete afc but now i know my value and just wasnt sure of the best way to answer it this time around. and next time ill remember to answer it before she asks.

I met this chick about a week ago and weve hit it off pretty well. Ive been pretty successful so far in getting around her mind games but she keeps asking me if im getting with other girls and stuff. Now my gut instinct is to avoid answering it directly because if i say no it might lessen my...

anyone have some good openers for the day? like right after a class or walking around on a campus?

I work at the gym at my college. All the sport chicks are always working out right by the desk and theyre always walking around. Does anyone have any good openers for this situation?

Lately i have come across a way to help yourself build conversation skills. Personally I have no problem in confidence but I am rather a quiet person and therefore its tough for me to carryout a decent conversation without a lot of silence. Chat rooms. The good thing is people are always in...

Thanks for that response tafakna. That makes a lot of sense and I will be sure to follow up in a week or so. Next week is Thanksgiving break so I wont be talking to her until i get back anyway so it works out great. I did move a little fast i think but I really just wanted to hangout and get to...