No contact but talking behind my back

[danthemann]

So i recently started no contact with this HB ive been seeing the last month. Basically things between us started out well but somewhere long the line I got the feeling she lost interest (probably me going a little afc) and she started to try and use me/play me and I caught her, called her out, and hence the no contact (i dont do disrespect).
Anyways i really havent had a problem not contacting her but she was at my buddys place recently and started talking about me and told my one buddy she doesnt like me. Maybe im thinkin too much but if she actually didnt like me she shouldnt be thinking all that hard about me. She asks about me to her one good guy friend i hang with sometimes and shes called me twice since i started NC and i havent answered. Even her girlfriends mention her when they see me. What im asking is, is there any meaning behind her talking about me while im not talking to her and if she calls a third time should i answer?

 

[oneboy21]

this is what she wants from you
She wants you to contact her and go back to her
than she will control you at some point and then leave you, which she thinks will make you cry

on the other point you going NC with her is an awesome thing you did, which is in turn bothering her, she is thinking hard and making plans on you so you will feel the pain. her friends are supporting her.

Now you need to decide whether you need this chic or not, i don't think you need to go for a chich who lost interest in you. down the road if you go back she may lost interest in you.

 

[danthemann]

Im not worried about me breaking the NC. I am 100% sure i can manage life without her. I just dont get how if you "dont like someone" you can still try and make them feel the pain. In my eyes if i didnt like a chick i wouldnt even bother with trying to mess with their head, is this girl just an evil player trying to manipulate all she can or what lol

 

[TopGun2000]

Im not worried about me breaking the NC. I am 100% sure i can manage life without her. I just dont get how if you "dont like someone" you can still try and make them feel the pain. In my eyes if i didnt like a chick i wouldnt even bother with trying to mess with their head, is this girl just an evil player trying to manipulate all she can or what lol

some girls got nothing better to do in their life. they enjoy playing guys. that's their hobby.

 

[oneboy21]

Topgun is right
she already got plans to play games with you, so she is sending invitations indirectly with her friends. if you take one step forward, she will take two steps forward to reach her goal to play games.

 

[danthemann]

aha I had the feeling all along that this chick was just messing with me. I honestly have this idea its because a few months ago I made out with her bestfriend at my buddys place (got her all hot n horny) and after she gave me a ride back to my place (her thinking shes gettin my d!ck) I never went through with her because I was able to catch myself before I banged an ugly chick. It kinda resembles how this girl wants car rides from me and will even get in bed with me but will NEVER let me f*** her, trust me ive made move after move then she tries to flip it on me afterwards like I dont wanna f***. I think she thinks the idea of sex with her already has me wrapped, oh no no missy, put out or get out...