"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guys giving too much attention

Zenboy93

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So basically I'm pursuing this hot chick who seem to be getting a lot of attention lately by the guys, everything was going well and nicely until these guys gave her attention, she started to be allof and cold... Has anyone faced this kind of situation where 5 other guys are on the same girl and don't know how to do it right ?
I realised that by not giving her attention she comes running to me ( espression ) trying to open up a convo and to talk with me. So basically I wanted your opinions on this one and it might help other guys !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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danthemann

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Be different and act distant, she may want all the attention from the guys but by being different you give her something to chase and wonder about. You must stick to this strategy though if you want to bang her. I tried the same thing with this girl ive been seeing for the past month and she started chasing me and I went afc and gave her my time and attention too quick and she tried to use me for it. Be careful and keep the frame that its HER who should be chasing YOU. If she is really interested she will bite, just keep her hooked and when you go out with her show her your fun side and that you can have a good time. Dont take disrespect from anyone and if she tries to test her boundaries (ie, disrespecting you) put her in her place and dont be afraid to walk away.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Personally I do agree to an extent with the post above. However, her being attracted isn't really a given, but reading the OP I'd say she might be. I'm having the pleasure of driving through a township atm (something only niño has the pleasure of) and these guys are extremely positive, atleast the kids. Be positive. Anyways, be direct too. The window will close someday. Even if she might chase you, you're still the man; you also need to chase some tail and close the deal. Have some options.
 
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