Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Here's proof too many guys use height as an excuse. In this video, a guy who's 6'4 says he's not getting girls because he isn't 6'8.

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Bro, unless you're near or under 5'0, height isn't your problem.


The guy in this video is 6'4. He tells her he's not getting action because he's not 6'8.

Many guys love using height as an excuse. If you're one of them, it's pretty sad bro. Go out and look at random couples. You make it sound like you never see short guys in a couple.

I'm 5'5 Asian male and in a three year relationship which will probably lead to marraige. In my 20s, I was a total incel who used height as an excuse. But looking back, it know it had absolutely nothing to do with height.

Guys who are 5'8 might say if they're 5'11, they'll get girls. If somehow, they magically they grow 3 inches, they'll say NAH, it's 6'2. Then 6'5. Then 6'7.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I used to be 8'17 but I kept bumping my head on doors so I had height reduction surgery.

Now I'm only 7'9 and the ladies look right past me.
Black pill idiots: "A guy who's 9'3 will get more chicks than a 6'4 guy".
 

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Again, height isn't of much benefit if a fella is ugly and devoid of charisma. We know because Micheal J. Fox(5'4. In shoes)had panties drenched from The early 80s-through the late 90s, to a degree unimaginable to almost everyone in The NBA
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's OVER for 79InchManletCels. I guess they'll have to do some leg-lengthening. :rolleyes:
 

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scroll down to the ‘personal life’ section / ‘love life’ for Wilt Chamberlain 7’.1”.


the taller a man is the more opportunities he will get. That’s just a fact of life.
FYI for you too @BaronOfHair
Most men in The NBA didn't enjoy the kill count Chamberlain did. Clearly, height on it's own is the equivalent of putting Double Ds on Heather Mattarazo and believing that alone will transform her into centerfold material
 

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Most men in The NBA didn't enjoy the kill count Chamberlain did. Clearly, height on it's own is the equivalent of putting Double Ds on Heather Mattarazo and believing that alone will transform her into centerfold material
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it’s a combination of face + height.
This is a good analysis;
 

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I'm 5'5 Asian male and in a three year relationship which will probably lead to marraige. In my 20s, I was a total incel who used height as an excuse. But looking back, it know it had absolutely nothing to do with height.
So what did you do to change your circumstances from total Incel … what did it have to do with ? Genuine question.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm 6'3" and have had 6" women tell me I wasnt tall enough for them (they wanted at least 6'5") so I know it can happen but realistically someone his height should be tall enough for 99% of women.
 

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The rule of thumb is simple: just be same height or taller.

You don't need to be 7 inches.
I'm 5,3.

Plenty taller women find me attractive, but I also look at what I can get.
 

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Height is but one factor. It's not all the factors. But tall people are generally, excuse the pun, looked up to, on the exception of very low charismatic guys.
 

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Height is one of many check marks that women have in their list of needs.. IF you don't meet that criteria but mark the other boxes, you should be fine.. Overall though,if you're in the west, most women are sh.t quality and most just settle for men until they find better opportunities.. There are good girls though and that makes less than 30% of the population --the other resort is to start dating fat or ugly girls because they will be loyal since they are also in scarcity like most of you men.
 

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Man, I think the "looksmaxx" crowd are on to something but I only agree with like 10-20% of what they say; most of them seem to take it WAY too far to the point of pathological autism and actual insanity. If you're 6' or over you do not get to EVER complain about your height.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Man, I think the "looksmaxx" crowd are on to something but I only agree with like 10-20% of what they say; most of them seem to take it WAY too far to the point of pathological autism and actual insanity. If you're 6' or over you do not get to EVER complain about your height.
Nah man i wouldnt say most. Most of them are younger males who just want to improve their looks and feel better about them selves.. Its just the weirdos and autistic dudes like Clavicular or those in front of cameras all the time that end up being too extreme..

Attention is an insane drug.
 

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So what did you do to change your circumstances from total Incel … what did it have to do with ? Genuine question.
It's not just one thing. It was many things over a long period of time. I've notice once I got some initial success, I felt better about myself (better inner game) which then breeds even more success. That's 70% of it.

The other 30% is better social skills. I've learned you gotta be a bit polarizing and build some tension. Stop it with the clingy nice guy act that many short guys and guys with confidence issues have. Don't be afraid to disagree with her and make fun of her, as long as it's natural and not like a script you learned in a book.

If you don't have inner game, it's over. It's useless trying to put on an act. Women are good at detecting something artifical about you.
 
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