"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here's proof too many guys use height as an excuse. In this video, a guy who's 6'4 says he's not getting girls because he isn't 6'8.

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Bro, unless you're near or under 5'0, height isn't your problem.


The guy in this video is 6'4. He tells her he's not getting action because he's not 6'8.

Many guys love using height as an excuse. If you're one of them, it's pretty sad bro. Go out and look at random couples. You make it sound like you never see short guys in a couple.

I'm 5'5 Asian male and in a three year relationship which will probably lead to marraige. In my 20s, I was a total incel who used height as an excuse. But looking back, it know it had absolutely nothing to do with height.

Guys who are 5'8 might say if they're 5'11, they'll get girls. If somehow, they magically they grow 3 inches, they'll say NAH, it's 6'2. Then 6'5. Then 6'7.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I used to be 8'17 but I kept bumping my head on doors so I had height reduction surgery.

Now I'm only 7'9 and the ladies look right past me.
Black pill idiots: "A guy who's 9'3 will get more chicks than a 6'4 guy".
 

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Again, height isn't of much benefit if a fella is ugly and devoid of charisma. We know because Micheal J. Fox(5'4. In shoes)had panties drenched from The early 80s-through the late 90s, to a degree unimaginable to almost everyone in The NBA
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's OVER for 79InchManletCels. I guess they'll have to do some leg-lengthening. :rolleyes:
 

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scroll down to the ‘personal life’ section / ‘love life’ for Wilt Chamberlain 7’.1”.


the taller a man is the more opportunities he will get. That’s just a fact of life.
FYI for you too @BaronOfHair
Most men in The NBA didn't enjoy the kill count Chamberlain did. Clearly, height on it's own is the equivalent of putting Double Ds on Heather Mattarazo and believing that alone will transform her into centerfold material
 

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Most men in The NBA didn't enjoy the kill count Chamberlain did. Clearly, height on it's own is the equivalent of putting Double Ds on Heather Mattarazo and believing that alone will transform her into centerfold material
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it’s a combination of face + height.
This is a good analysis;
 

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I'm 5'5 Asian male and in a three year relationship which will probably lead to marraige. In my 20s, I was a total incel who used height as an excuse. But looking back, it know it had absolutely nothing to do with height.
So what did you do to change your circumstances from total Incel … what did it have to do with ? Genuine question.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm 6'3" and have had 6" women tell me I wasnt tall enough for them (they wanted at least 6'5") so I know it can happen but realistically someone his height should be tall enough for 99% of women.
 
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