"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Here's proof too many guys use height as an excuse. In this video, a guy who's 6'4 says he's not getting girls because he isn't 6'8.

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Bro, unless you're near or under 5'0, height isn't your problem.


The guy in this video is 6'4. He tells her he's not getting action because he's not 6'8.

Many guys love using height as an excuse. If you're one of them, it's pretty sad bro. Go out and look at random couples. You make it sound like you never see short guys in a couple.

I'm 5'5 Asian male and in a three year relationship which will probably lead to marraige. In my 20s, I was a total incel who used height as an excuse. But looking back, it know it had absolutely nothing to do with height.

Guys who are 5'8 might say if they're 5'11, they'll get girls. If somehow, they magically they grow 3 inches, they'll say NAH, it's 6'2. Then 6'5. Then 6'7.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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I used to be 8'17 but I kept bumping my head on doors so I had height reduction surgery.

Now I'm only 7'9 and the ladies look right past me.
Black pill idiots: "A guy who's 9'3 will get more chicks than a 6'4 guy".
 

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Again, height isn't of much benefit if a fella is ugly and devoid of charisma. We know because Micheal J. Fox(5'4. In shoes)had panties drenched from The early 80s-through the late 90s, to a degree unimaginable to almost everyone in The NBA
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's OVER for 79InchManletCels. I guess they'll have to do some leg-lengthening. :rolleyes:
 

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scroll down to the ‘personal life’ section / ‘love life’ for Wilt Chamberlain 7’.1”.


the taller a man is the more opportunities he will get. That’s just a fact of life.
FYI for you too @BaronOfHair
Most men in The NBA didn't enjoy the kill count Chamberlain did. Clearly, height on it's own is the equivalent of putting Double Ds on Heather Mattarazo and believing that alone will transform her into centerfold material
 

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Most men in The NBA didn't enjoy the kill count Chamberlain did. Clearly, height on it's own is the equivalent of putting Double Ds on Heather Mattarazo and believing that alone will transform her into centerfold material
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it’s a combination of face + height.
This is a good analysis;
 

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I'm 5'5 Asian male and in a three year relationship which will probably lead to marraige. In my 20s, I was a total incel who used height as an excuse. But looking back, it know it had absolutely nothing to do with height.
So what did you do to change your circumstances from total Incel … what did it have to do with ? Genuine question.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm 6'3" and have had 6" women tell me I wasnt tall enough for them (they wanted at least 6'5") so I know it can happen but realistically someone his height should be tall enough for 99% of women.
 

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The rule of thumb is simple: just be same height or taller.

You don't need to be 7 inches.
I'm 5,3.

Plenty taller women find me attractive, but I also look at what I can get.
 

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Height is but one factor. It's not all the factors. But tall people are generally, excuse the pun, looked up to, on the exception of very low charismatic guys.
 

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Height is one of many check marks that women have in their list of needs.. IF you don't meet that criteria but mark the other boxes, you should be fine.. Overall though,if you're in the west, most women are sh.t quality and most just settle for men until they find better opportunities.. There are good girls though and that makes less than 30% of the population --the other resort is to start dating fat or ugly girls because they will be loyal since they are also in scarcity like most of you men.
 

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Man, I think the "looksmaxx" crowd are on to something but I only agree with like 10-20% of what they say; most of them seem to take it WAY too far to the point of pathological autism and actual insanity. If you're 6' or over you do not get to EVER complain about your height.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Man, I think the "looksmaxx" crowd are on to something but I only agree with like 10-20% of what they say; most of them seem to take it WAY too far to the point of pathological autism and actual insanity. If you're 6' or over you do not get to EVER complain about your height.
Nah man i wouldnt say most. Most of them are younger males who just want to improve their looks and feel better about them selves.. Its just the weirdos and autistic dudes like Clavicular or those in front of cameras all the time that end up being too extreme..

Attention is an insane drug.
 

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So what did you do to change your circumstances from total Incel … what did it have to do with ? Genuine question.
It's not just one thing. It was many things over a long period of time. I've notice once I got some initial success, I felt better about myself (better inner game) which then breeds even more success. That's 70% of it.

The other 30% is better social skills. I've learned you gotta be a bit polarizing and build some tension. Stop it with the clingy nice guy act that many short guys and guys with confidence issues have. Don't be afraid to disagree with her and make fun of her, as long as it's natural and not like a script you learned in a book.

If you don't have inner game, it's over. It's useless trying to put on an act. Women are good at detecting something artifical about you.
 
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