She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Speaking of that, this is one of my dance teacher.Ironically, it's the one that will almost always attract the most women, because it displays something that is almost universally attractive to women that can't be faked.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That's an easy fix, stop moving your hips so much lol that's her jobI dance salsa, although lately I've been thinking about switching to other styles.
Salsa makes me feel a little too "feminine."
What dance styles do you know and have you practiced?
I do remember seeing some instruction on dancing where the said the guy's job is basically to highlight the woman while she does her thing. Kinda makes sense.That's an easy fix, stop moving your hips so much lol that's her job
In all seriousness west coast swing is pretty awesome. She gets to do her crazy, sexy sh*t and I get to stand there and look amazing without sweating my balls off.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I do remember seeing some instruction on dancing where the said the guy's job is basically to highlight the woman while she does her thing. Kinda makes sense.
I think dancing helps men become comfortable with rejection (dancing in front of everyone), develop an idgaf attitude, gain mastery and control over their bodies, and become sensual.
But most importantly, it teaches you how to have fun with a woman's body.
There's no going back, guys.
It's as if when you learn to dance, you now know what to do physically to a woman to have fun with her physically, any woman!
So you no longer see two breasts and an ass, but rather all the elements that connect to her brain.
Great post, I wonder if there are other disciplines/activities a man can do in his life to take total control of having fun with a woman's body.
Besides sex, which is obvious, I was thinking about things like learning to give massages, and something like improvisation.
What do you think?
Even at age 13, I considered line dancing to be incel (in as much as that term had been developed, LOL).Line dancing with a bit of break dancing, and mixing some of my own moves if I really like the music.
Even at age 13, I considered line dancing to be incel (in as much as that term had been developed, LOL).
I never thought I'd see myself doing line dancing to Nickelback O.O
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When I was in college, one of my buddies tried to hype us up for line dancing at a country bar on campus. I thought line dancing was corny as h*ll and thought it would be full of old folks and hill billy whales. But found out real quick, chicks dig it and the entirety of all the collegiate HB10s were congregated there.Even at age 13, I considered line dancing to be incel (in as much as that term had been developed, LOL).
Pooka is pretty awesome, it's just triples the entire time. It's even better during oktoberfest with a legit pooka band.I'm from Texas and still live here. C&W is my fav. And not just line dancing, We have the pooka, Texas 2-step, country waltz, cotton-eyed joe (line dance) and shottice (line dance). And my fav is the Texas Swing. Back in my Rock-star 20s & 30s we hit the clubs and bars on a regular basis. Facts are that almost All women Love to dance and most of them are really pretty good at it.
That’s great but not what we do here in Texas
I never thought I'd see myself doing line dancing to Nickelback O.O
How we do it in Florida ))That’s great but not what we do here in Texas
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.