Recent content by BADA-BING

Wow, This just makes me realize I have alot to learn. I have given her all of my power. She has me writing letters spilling my guts, man I feel dumb and AFC'ish. I have got to sort my life out and re-evaluate myself and make different priorities. To regain anything....I need to WALK...

I sometimes from time to time have to write out my feelings and thoughts on paper to organize and get my own sh!t straight. I wrote a letter to this chick I have been dating. I haven't sent it. Basically it states how she has but hasn't LJBF'd me, and I am not looking for a relationship. I...

Wow, this is great. I have seen this dynamic in action with different groups of friends and didn't realize exactly what was going on. Now i understand much better. It is so obvious now, that I am seeing all sorts of junk that I was sortof blinded too.....wow..... I never really realized...

I have been seeing a new chick for 4-5weeks now. We really seemed to be hitting it off. Her interest level was atleast at 95%. She would call me regularly, come over and stay with me, go out of her way to hang with me, etc etc....you get it. Just as of late, it seems her interest level...

Has anyone else been dooped by bad photo? *Not Safe For Work* http://manscript.com/2007/03/01/beware-of-the-fat-girl-angle-shot/ If you look at her face it looks like the same girl.

Hey I realize that I am not in my thirties but I am getting close. I have found that the older I have gotten I have "mellowed" slightly. For intance I have become much more indifferent about stupid things and I let more roll off my back so to speak when it concerns women. example: I don't get...

Hopeful loner and hyperactive I think you are onto something and i agree with you guys. I think that there are many exceptions to the rules and each women needs to be dealt with differentely on a case by case basis. The girl I have been seeing is consistantly showing good signs of high...

Wow I am really questioning things with a recent chick I have been seeing. I have had past relationships that took a month or month + 1/2 to bed the girl, and to tell you the truth the sex was not that great. They kinda layed there and did nothing. The most recent girl I have been...

I got a laugh out of this site that shows hot chicks with some tool bags. Thought some of you would get a kick out of it as well. http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/

MacAvoy, I would not call it oneitis, i just liked her and things seemed to be going well between us before this crap went down. I have made many mistakes and I am trying to learn from them. The first step in recovery is admitting you have a problem. I am just trying to learn when and...

I sent the email the next day after I dropped off her car when I was all pissed off. So I had not even posted on DJ forum yet. I realized I made many mistakes and I am now trying to learn from them. Hind site is always clearer.

Ok I don't know if it was a mistake or not but I emailed this chick in my previous post(before I posted on the DJ forum). I felt that I needed to tell her that what she did was sh*tty and uncalled for. I needed to do it to get it off of my chest and so she knew that it wasn't ok. (some...

I am 27 years old. We "hooked up", meaning that we had sex. Should have made that clearer.

First,I know it sounds bad that I drank and then drove, but I only had 4 beers and I waited atleast 20 minutes and drank 4 glasses of water before leaving. So I was not trashed. Trust me if i was to far gone, I would NOT get behind the wheel. Now that I have had time to think about things I...

Yeah after I sat there and fumed about my AFC behavior and I really should have done something at that point to redeem anything left in me. But of course I had drank too much alcohol and my judgement was clouded. Hence my dumb behavior. Those guys were't worth a fight and she most certainly...