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Recent content by amethyst

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    Girlfriend going to Vegas..

    Look, you should probably use this time to evaluate your relationship and see if you are both truly happy in it. The reason why I am saying this is because usually when you are in a happy relationship you are not really worried about cheating. Cheating usually happens when one of the parties is...
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    Why it's easy for some and hard for others (your ideas...)

    it really all boils down to experience. The more you put yourself out of your comfort zone the more experiences you will amass, the more experiences you have the more comfortable you will feel with yourself. P.s. Canned openers and the "skill sets" you learn from most systems don't count...
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    Alpha > Beta? I believe it ain't necessarily so.

    In a pack the strongest member is the one that will lead the group. Thinking we are all Beta is actually falling prey to what you have been force fed all your life. Why are people great, is it because they stars aligned or is it because they fought to get where they got. Think of Napoleon, was...
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    Do good women really exist?

    It really depends where you are looking and what exactly you are looking for. It could be that you are looking in the wrong places or maybe some of the characteristics you find attractive have negative aspects as well. But never settle for less, always go for more, or you will never feel truly...
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    Need some guidance, I feel like I screwed up...

    Konduit, just let go. We have all done things like this in the past, and we have all had this happen to us at one point in our lives. All you can do is learn from it, accept it, and let it go. Your ex is probably not thinking “man what a creep that guy was” she is probably getting on with her...
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    GRIPE: Women refuse to be introspective

    Rascal, I read some of your posts and I think you have a lot of growing up to do. First of all calling people AFCs is not very productive, especially since you seem to think it is AFC is a an insult to use when people disagree with your point of view. You do not need any validation in this forum...
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    Need some guidance, I feel like I screwed up...

    The reason why you care about what people are thinking about you is because you are focused on something that is fleeting, you need to build your foundation first. Since you don’t seem to have a solid foundation yet (knowing exactly who you are), you are giving way to much importance to what...
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    Why do women cheat?

    Well women and men cheat becuase they are not happy in their relationships. I could go on to talk about how a relationship might might be hampered by psychological factors like low self-esteem, but it might get a bit tedious so I will leave it at that. Love, Amethyst
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    I'm not in the right frame of mind right now... Decipher her texts for me.

    Easy... She felt guilty because she flaked on you. You went absolutely mental: In one stroke you killed all posibilities of hooking up with her, lost her trust and friendship. No one likes a FWB that is unstable... Since her relationship was stable you should of gone into hiatus. Instead...
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    Broke up with girl who loved me. I'm a F***** jerk.

    I will start by saying that I you probably won't like what I am about to say but sometimes some tough love is necesary to get people to wake up. When you are on a healthy relationship you try to complement each other, and if it doesn't work you both walk away better than when you started...
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    Help me get the girl(22yr old virgin and inexperienced)

    Bro stob being such a dumbass, you are being a sissy because you are thinking you are the worst catch in the world. No matter what you think someone has it worse than you, and your not as bad as you think. So chin up son start acting like a winner and stop putting yourself down, instead find...
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    Why Mice turn into Tigers and back to mice

    I think the biggest problem we face is that we are aiming toward too many goals at the same time, I, for example, was trying not only to get a first degree and openly boosted about how I could do this and that and bragged about things I had done in the past. My biggest downfall is that I...
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    Chat log. Think I got her good...What do you think?

    I really wonder why people seek to validate themselves in these fourms... It is really beyond me. As for the OP I gotta say you are being weak, a confident person takes critisism in their stride and learn from it, a weakling tries to defend their point. The convo was Dire and you asked us to...
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    The pedophile next door

    Karma, I as much as any despise pedophilles. Actually I lothe them so much if I heard they had engaged in sexual acivitys with a child, I would probably beat them to death on the spot. But you are over reacting, I have a 8yr old bro a 7yr old sis and a 5 yr old bro... So I know where you...
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    chick jokes about HIV

    one hundred and seven and still counting!
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