She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I can understand if you are niche/hobby maxxing and you actually have some aura/game/authority working for you(Professor, a boss, a guy high up in some art community or something). However, I find it hard to believe that some average older guy with nothing standout about him is just regularly pulling hot college women at ease without paying for it in some form or shape.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This varies vastly depending on the country, state, region, etc. Even within the U.S., there would be a huge difference based on location. What is true of college girls in NYC does not necessarily apply to college girls in Nebraska.
In my opinion, for what it's worth, I think it has a lot to do with how you feel about yourself and who you are as a person. I felt really good about myself, I felt that I was special and was going somewhere in life, and I genuinely really like young women.
Remember, they send their best looking women to the SEC
. Have you been on a non-SEC campus? it's pretty contrasting with the women lol. Even women at Arizona State just had that fake hot look which I was not in to, but I am sure plenty of guys are.She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Arizona State's main campus in Tempe is a competitive mating environment. Most Arizona State women are getting with Arizona State men but I have heard of some Arizona State women going older in the form of sugar daddy game. There are older guys with enough money to do sugar daddy game in parts of Phoenix that aren't close to the Tempe campus.
Are you talking about the legacy Pac 10/Pac 12 schools? I don't think they are as laid back as you might think.
just curious what you would rate that girl looks wise? She is an 8 in my book.
And that woman is not going to date a 10-20 year older dusty guy with nothing to bring to the table but his vibe either. The older men those women are fvcking are high smv guys with money and status. Status and money is relative because the roughneck bubba with a loaded F250 and construction company can be considered high smv in a small town. At some point, you will have to bring something to the table to continue dating younger women. I don't think there's anything unusual about that at all.
6.5-7 personally. But then one thing I learnt from the 'post your 10' thread is that we all have wildly different tastes lol
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
why is she a this low?
Who said 30+ is significantly older?
Just personally I don't really think her face as that attractive. Not sure how old she is, but she looks kind of old even though she's probably young. Got that slightly off look to me a bit like how one of the Olsen twins ended up looking.
That girl is definitely more attractive lol.
That is 100% subjective. I like more "chubby" ones, but objectively I can say her look it's around 8 yes.
What do you mean with
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
They seem to be in the same looks bracket, but the latter appears to have a more extroverted personality than the former.
I’ve actually been saying this for a while now: the best method of pulling younger women is through social circles and power dynamics (e.g., teacher, guardian, manager, mentor, coach).
Nothing necessarily "separates" me or anyone from anyone. It's just a matter of showing up and doing. College girls are super horny, out of their parents' clutches for the first time, and always looking to prove that they're mature and adult. And they are looking to experiment. A man with some semblance of charm and a job just has to go out and talk to them.
tbh, you'd almost certainly get rejected if you're actually 49! You'd have to approach a LOT of really hot 18 year old girls before one gave you a shot at your age. Hundreds and hundreds before one was interested/sexually attracted.
do you think these guys would have an extremely high chance of banging her from a cold approach? They're kind of old so they have a massive advantage, presumably. Vs, say a good looking 19 year old
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.