Older dudes (30+) in the US getting college girls that are actually hot, ever seen it?

[SpartanWarrior77]

It simply depends. In foreign countries, it's more common. In the US, it can happen but if you're in a state outside of NYC or small towns, I don't think its that common. Girls in the US are mostly not very intrigued, curious or attracted to older men unless they're the cream of the crop. American women are like men. They like young and hot. To like older guys, generally it takes more sophisticated taste and women here don't have much sophistication other than for looks/money.

And the reason I mention NYC is because a) more foreign women and b) slightly more sophisticated culture where young/hot women are a bit more intrigued by knowledgable/mature men. Now compare that to South Florida, knowledge or smarts does not get you jack. Soflo is all about money and status. Unless you're a thuggish type who can stimulate the gangster fantasy.

 

[Solomon]

For attractive men who have it together the problem comes down to more of a societal problem. Lots of women, older and younger simply aren’t capable of meaningful relationships.

Ding Ding Ding Ding Bob we have a winner!!!

Most of these conversations (especially on here)never get past the get laid part because most men aren't even in the field like that. You are addressing a problem that I learned quite quickly when I first joined the forum, some16 or 17 years ago eventually after you bunkerbuster a few girls from a college bar/venue etc. You may want more. I have noticed in the last decade that a lot of women aren't even girlfriend material, back in the day I had a simple litmus test as part of a qualifier.

If a woman comes over my place and we have drinks or eat. She then offered to take the plates/cups to the kitchen without me asking that was cool, if she offered to do the dishes, she was a keeper. In the last 10 years there have only been 2 women who have done that, in the last 10 years prior to that a lot of women would help carry stuff to the kitchen without asking.

The truth is modern women don't put in a lot of effort and why should they, men and simps have made it so easy for them that women think just hanging out with you is enough, and if they have sex with you they are doing you a favor. I'm talking about women not just prime aged women but also women who are in their 40s+

 

[SW15]

Lots of women, older and younger simply aren’t capable of meaningful relationships.

This is a really good point. It's understandable when a younger woman isn't capable of a meaningful relationship. There might be an expectation that eventually she will mature and grow into a woman capable of that.

It's more frustrating to meet older women who aren't capable of meaningful relationships and older woman who act immature in their relationships. It's getting common to interact with 30+ women who act like teens/early 20s women in their interactions.

If your looking for that true young love feeling, like your first, that era comes to and end at the latest by 27 as a man. 25 for women.

After that age I think both sexes date for more realistic expectations. Money, sex, status, compatibility, companionship etc.

There's a certain jaded feeling that is a part of the interactions between 27+ men and 25+ women.

The truth is modern women don't put in a lot of effort and why should they, men and simps have made it so easy for them that women think just hanging out with you is enough, and if they have sex with you they are doing you a favor. I'm talking about women not just prime aged women but also women who are in their 40s+

There's been an epidemic/pandemic of male thirst in the mating marketplace.

There isn't much reason for women to put in effort when men are simping for basic relationships and women have abundance.

Women who are past their physical primes can often have hundreds of men competing for them if they are active on social media and put up a profile on at least one swipe app.

Women 18-22 will be the ones who are demanded the most since they are in their physical primes.

In the US, it can happen but if you're in a state outside of NYC or small towns, I don't think its that common. Girls in the US are mostly not very intrigued, curious or attracted to older men unless they're the cream of the crop.

It's difficult for men to get significant age gap relationships with 18-22 year old women once they are 10+ years older than that specific woman.

 

[CornbreadFed]

If a woman comes over my place and we have drinks or eat. She then offered to take the plates/cups to the kitchen without me asking that was cool, if she offered to do the dishes, she was a keeper. In the last 10 years there have only been 2 women who have done that, in the last 10 years prior to that a lot of women would help carry stuff to the kitchen without asking.

The truth is modern women don't put in a lot of effort and why should they, men and simps have made it so easy for them that women think just hanging out with you is enough, and if they have sex with you they are doing you a favor. I'm talking about women not just prime aged women but also women who are in their 40s+

My issue with the lay count community is that they are saying that they don't dumpster dive to increase their lay count, so they would pass over a high-quality woman that does this and more. For example, if a girl matching your type of preference did this, made you breakfast, and just gave you feminine energy, would you smash and pass immediately?

 

[Solomon]

My issue with the lay count community is that they are saying that they don't dumpster dive to increase their lay count, so they would pass over a high-quality woman that does this and more. For example, if a girl matching your type of preference did this, made you breakfast, and just gave you feminine energy, would you smash and pass immediately?

Cornbread let's keep it a 100, a lot of those dorks that talk about laycount and bodycount aren't even in the game!!!!
They are keyboard jockey's posturing, well if you are a dude who is living in your mom's basement, play video games all day, go on 4chan and reddit for hours on end. Of couse you want women with a low body count. Because those guys aren't in the field talking or meeting women. The only women they talk to is their AI companinons and their mother and sister!

When you go out in the real world, think about the guys you know who are real players or ladies' men, do they talk this nonsense? no, but online people do. This is why I take everything I read on the net even here, with a grain of salt, because the same guy typing that talking about body count is the same guy who claims they only date 9s and 10s. Meanwhile, as soon as he logs of, that same guy is dumpster diving at dive bars for 3s and 4s. It reminds me of that one guy who exposed himself using a fake avatar of a buff guy giving advice but people called him on his shyt because he didn't know what he was talking about. Come to find out he was a fraud who was only posting for likes and validation lmfaoo.

 

[SW15]

If a woman comes over my place and we have drinks or eat. She then offered to take the plates/cups to the kitchen without me asking that was cool, if she offered to do the dishes, she was a keeper. In the last 10 years there have only been 2 women who have done that, in the last 10 years prior to that a lot of women would help carry stuff to the kitchen without asking.

For example, if a girl matching your type of preference did this, made you breakfast, and just gave you feminine energy, would you smash and pass immediately?

If a woman showed characteristics that would be worthy of being a girlfriend in a committed, exclusive relationship, then I would make her a girlfriend in a committed, exclusive relationship.