Older dudes (30+) in the US getting college girls that are actually hot, ever seen it?

[CornbreadFed]

do you think these guys would have an extremely high chance of banging her from a cold approach? They're kind of old so they have a massive advantage, presumably. Vs, say a good looking 19 year old

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I think the younger guy would have the best chance followed by the guy in the first video. The rest will need some social/status proof to be taken seriously.

 

[Plinco]

There's a lot of negativity projecting onto what other people think on this forum.

I saw a 7.5/10 white girl, probably mid 20's with a 5/10 40-ish black dude yesterday. Granted that is an exception, but it shows that individual preferences exist.

 

[CornbreadFed]

There's a lot of negativity projecting onto what other people think on this forum.

I saw a 7.5/10 white girl, probably mid 20's with a 5/10 40-ish black dude yesterday. Granted that is an exception, but it shows that individual preferences exist.

We really need to stop judging everything based solely on what we see. Men and women are not the best judges of what the opposite sex actually finds attractive. That is why I tell men to model themselves after the men that the women they want are actually dating or sleeping with. Ignore what other people say.

For example, in male dominated spaces like this, you will often hear that women prefer Giga Chads, John Waynes, or very masculine men. In reality, the guys who are consistently successful with women often have softer features and resemble people like Paul Rudd, Riley Green, Pete Davidson, or Travis Barker.

It is not just men making these assumptions. Women often think men prefer strong, independent, highly feminine women, which is not always true either.

On top of that, you rarely know what is actually going on in a situation. Are they even dating? Does he have status, game/personality or money helping him? Did he gain weight since the relationship started? Maybe the woman is not as attractive as you initially thought and you just got carried away at first glance. There are countless reasons why taking things at face value can lead you to the wrong conclusions.

 

[Plinco]

We really need to stop judging everything based solely on what we see. Men and women are not the best judges of what the opposite sex actually finds attractive. That is why I tell men to model themselves after the men that the women they want are actually dating or sleeping with. Ignore what other people say.

For example, in male dominated spaces like this, you will often hear that women prefer Giga Chads, John Waynes, or very masculine men. In reality, the guys who are consistently successful with women often have softer features and resemble people like Paul Rudd, Riley Green, Pete Davidson, or Travis Barker.

It is not just men making these assumptions. Women often think men prefer strong, independent, highly feminine women, which is not always true either.

On top of that, you rarely know what is actually going on in a situation. Are they even dating? Does he have status, game/personality or money helping him? Did he gain weight since the relationship started? Maybe the woman is not as attractive as you initially thought and you just got carried away at first glance. There are countless reasons why taking things at face value can lead you to the wrong conclusions.

Observations should always be the starting point for our thoughts, so I largely agree with you here.

What I was saying earlier was that my observations have showed me that there are also individual preferences at work too, and there's other things a woman can find attractive other than a man's age.

 

[Vanderdonck]

tbh, you'd almost certainly get rejected if you're actually 49! You'd have to approach a LOT of really hot 18 year old girls before one gave you a shot at your age. Hundreds and hundreds before one was interested/sexually attracted.
I remember when RSDTyler released new footage when he was doing his 'state to state infields' (now as a much older man with a big grey beard) and he was getting NOWEHERE with the really young ones. As he got older and older, his success infield seemed to always come from slightly older women AND he seemed to rely more and more on his girlfriend to help him out. Ross jefferies should release some new infield of him trying to same day lay hot 18 year olds on the street!!! Would honestly be hysterical

Hah, true, I'm not out approaching girls now with the intent of sex. I'm in an LTR. I was talking about my 30s to early 40s. I do go out sometimes and talk to college girls incidentally; they have asked for my IG/number but I'm probably cool as a cucumber because I'm not after them. To me it's just for socializing and keeping the ol' saw sharp. Most girls that age don't interest me at this point, it's a much wider expanse in mentality and maturity. Occasionally though I do run into the unicorn who's cute and can keep up intellectually. But you're right I'd have to be killing it and doing large volume or spending lots of $ to play in that league full time.

A guy in his 30s who's hitting on all the cylinders we stress here should not have a problem attracting young women like that if he tries a little. That was my point.

 

[HaleyBaron]

i always found getting older women a million times easier. Hot teenagers have SMV through the ROOF and boy do they know it

Besides, it's all kind of moot. If she thinks you're hot then it's not too difficult. And if you're not her type (she thinks you're ugly and old or whatever) then it's never gonna happen with that girl. Not with all the 'seduction skills' in the world

You got it reversed. Older women are the tougher crowd and usually for no reason at all except their delusional egos thinking maturity = value.

And hot teenage girls are just as insecure as any woman. When they are younger, they are even more inexperienced, making them far easier to pick up. Most men like yourself put younger women on the same intellectual level as you, which is your mistake.

 

[Plinco]

You got it reversed. Older women are the tougher crowd and usually for no reason at all except their delusional egos thinking maturity = value.

And hot teenage girls are just as insecure as any woman. When they are younger, they are even more inexperienced, making them far easier to pick up. Most men like yourself put younger women on the same intellectual level as you, which is your mistake.

It varies from individual to individual. In my experience, I'll get older women (25+) hitting on me, whereas I have to work to get the 18-25 crowd. Even at 18, many of these girls know full well that they are in their prime and act accordingly. If you don't believe me, try it out for yourself. With that said, I'm not saying that you couldn't do it, but in my experience it's not easy.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I know that there are two conflicting schools of thought here. The Red Pill and Manosphere claim that mid-30s are a guy's prime (I disagree for hooking up) and a guy that age has a lot of options. The Reddit Feminazis say that only ugly college girls go for old men while the hot ones go for guys their own age.

For those of you in here with a lot of life experience, have you known college girls that were actually hot get with significantly older guys (30+)?

Your whole paradigm seems to be centered around women making logical and wise choices regarding men. Some do, but a lot of them don't.

 

[characternote]

I'll get older women (25+) hitting on me, whereas I have to work to get the 18-25 crowd. Even at 18, many of these girls know full well that they are in their prime and act accordingly. If you don't believe me, try it out for yourself. With that said, I'm not saying that you couldn't do it, but in my experience it's not easy.

exactly. Everyone knows this, to be honest! It's not contentious. Most guys got into game because they want 'YOUNGER and hotter' (since they are the girls who they are invisible too). Most very young girls won't give an older guy a shot at all. They're far from insecure! they have about 20k followers and hot guys hitting them up online 24/7. They can't be 'manipulated into bed'. We're not talking about actual 6 year old girls who can be tricked with 'reverse psychology' to tidy their room lol. People who say that sort of thing would get obliterated with rejection on a night out of hitting on hot 18 year olds lol. There's a reason why, when an older guy is seen with a really young girl everyone screams 'how did he pull that off?!!!', or 'he must be a millionnaire!!' What next...easier to be a millionnaire than be broke?

Its outrageous to say that older women are harder lol.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Observations should always be the starting point for our thoughts, so I largely agree with you here.

What I was saying earlier was that my observations have showed me that there are also individual preferences at work too, and there's other things a woman can find attractive other than a man's age.

This picture explains what I mean lol [

 

[HaleyBaron]

It varies from individual to individual. In my experience, I'll get older women (25+) hitting on me, whereas I have to work to get the 18-25 crowd. Even at 18, many of these girls know full well that they are in their prime and act accordingly. If you don't believe me, try it out for yourself. With that said, I'm not saying that you couldn't do it, but in my experience it's not easy.

I have tried it. I have ****ed 18 year olds to 20 with ease. Granted, I am in shape and look like a nba athlete. Girls' eyes light up when they see me. And you do not have to play any games with them. You are immediately the authority. Just admit you do look like someone's uncle [this is not toward you, but in general to anyone who says younger women are harder than older women]. Like come on, older women will always be harder. I can get older women, but they play too many games for their market value. They have nothing to bargain for to be acting that way.

 

[Hal9000]

When I was in my mid 40s I helped a buddy of mine do some DJing in a college town. I had a fair amount of success with college girls basically throwing themselves at me. They'd just sit in my lap and start making out with me, grab my phone and put in their numbers, then text me, etc. It was very easy. And my buddy was able to pull these girls until he got into his 50s. The big caveat here is that these girls were drunk, it was late at night, it was a party environment and I did look pretty young for my age, especially in low light. So can older guys in the perfect environment hook up with college girls? Yes and I've seen it firsthand. Can they "date" them? Probably not because once the party is over and they head back to math class the next day, I have absolutely nothing in common with them, nor do they with me. It may be hard to believe if you're a younger guy, but once you reach a certain age dealing with the personality of most college girls is exhausting and not worth more than the absolute minimum effort if you're trying to hook up with them.

 

[CornbreadFed]

When I was in my mid 40s I helped a buddy of mine do some DJing in a college town. I had a fair amount of success with college girls basically throwing themselves at me. They'd just sit in my lap and start making out with me, grab my phone and put in their numbers, then text me, etc. It was very easy. And my buddy was able to pull these girls until he got into his 50s. The big caveat here is that these girls were drunk, it was late at night, it was a party environment and I did look pretty young for my age, especially in low light. So can older guys in the perfect environment hook up with college girls? Yes and I've seen it firsthand. Can they "date" them? Probably not because once the party is over and they head back to math class the next day, I have absolutely nothing in common with them, nor do they with me. It may be hard to believe if you're a younger guy, but once you reach a certain age dealing with the personality of most college girls is exhausting and not worth more than the absolute minimum effort if you're trying to hook up with them.

In my mid to late twenties, I have dated 3 women in college and it was exhausting and annoying to deal with them then. I couldn't image being 50 and trying to have a basic conversation with them.

 

[MatureDJ]

A guy in his 30s who's hitting on all the cylinders we stress here should not have a problem attracting young women like that if he tries a little. That was my point.

I'm a data point to the negative on that.

 

[SW15]

I'm a data point to the negative on that.

How so? In your 30s, your career might have been peaking but you still had a height issue.

 

[Vanderdonck]

I'm a data point to the negative on that.

You post that angry face a lot. Maybe you're giving a bad vibe? With 12k messages on here you should have internalized some pretty good game by now. What do you think is off?

 

[MatureDJ]

You post that angry face a lot. Maybe you're giving a bad vibe? With 12k messages on here you should have internalized some pretty good game by now. What do you think is off?

I'm a ShortCel.

Welcome to my world:

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I was out at a venue that on certain nights, turns into being flooded with college kids. One angle I have seen older guys and those past college age take is the street interview TikToker angle. The thing is, it seemed to actually work to some degree. I saw 4 guys do it together with a camera and one of those lights. They went around interviewing both guys and girls. Everyone knew they were clearly older and some girls, usually the uglier ones (surprise surprise!), seemed to be offended by it.

When I was viewing these guys operate, a lot of girls definitely wanted in. They wanted to be a part of the interview thing these dudes were doing and they wanted that clout. Not sure if these guys actually got results. As usual, they did seem to polarize.

 

[Vanderdonck]

I'm a ShortCel.

Welcome to my world:

Yes I know you consider yourself that. I'm sure you've gotten laid though.

 

[Smok1nAce]

If your looking for that true young love feeling, like your first, that era comes to and end at the latest by 27 as a man. 25 for women.

After that age I think both sexes date for more realistic expectations. Money, sex, status, compatibility, companionship etc.


I’m just entering my mid 30s and I would say it’s only harder because you mind set is still jovial and juvenile. It takes a certain type of man (that your probably don’t get to till 40) to be able to date innocent women and fully be mature enough for the responsibility.

And the responsibility is harder than ever nowadays with the economy, social norms, etc.


I know a dude in his 50s who still hits up college bars and wonders why he can’t get dates. But he’s overweight, lives in a one bedroom apartment with nothing but a bed and white walls, and dresses like he’s hicking. These are the dudes who say you can’t game college girls.


For attractive men who have it together the problem comes down to more of a societal problem. Lots of women, older and younger simply aren’t capable of meaningful relationships.