"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is the Night of January 1 The Easiest Day of the Year to Get Laid

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 unique lays 12/31/22
2 unique lays 1/1/23

just another day, the good part is that I addded a plate that’s turning out to be outstanding.
 
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I'm not surprised. In the 2010s, when I went out on the night of January 1 in Dallas, I found it dead and women were no more receptive that night than other regular nights during the year.
 
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I didn’t go out because NYE is a stupid amateur holiday and not worth the risk/price. I noticed a couple of my friends were fighting with their gfs due to NYE planning drama. Me and my girl did everything during the day and just stayed on the couch and watched football lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I didn’t go out because NYE is a stupid amateur holiday and not worth the risk/price. I noticed a couple of my friends were fighting with their gfs due to NYE planning drama. Me and my girl did everything during the day and just stayed on the couch and watched football lol.
That's great. I think you did the right thing. NYE is the night of December 31. I agree that the night of December 31 (NYE) is amaetur night. This thread is about the night of January 1, last night. The first night out after the beginning of the year. The night of January 1 is supposed to have a different audience than amateur hour on December 31.
 
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That's great. I think you did the right thing. NYE is the night of December 31. I agree that the night of December 31 (NYE) is amaetur night. This thread is about the night of January 1, last night. The first night out after the beginning of the year. The night of January 1 is supposed to have a different audience than amateur hour on December 31.
shvt, my bad lmao. I never knew people went out on January 1st unless it appeared on a weekend like this year. I live in a popular bar area of the city and it seemed tame last night.
 

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I never knew people went out on January 1st unless it appeared on a weekend like this year. I live in a popular bar area of the city and it seemed tame last night.
That's why Roosh originally wrote the article about the night of January 1 back in February 2011. He was making the point that the night of January 1 was an overlooked night in terms of getting laid via nightlife. He had personal success with it and it was an uncommon take. At the time I read the article, it was so persuasive to me that I tried it and even tried it a 2nd time. Both times it was dead and a not so good experience. It's possible I chose poorly on venues but I was going to venues in the most active parts of the city.


Why is Thanksgiving the easiest day of the year to get laid?
It's the biggest party night of the year typically.
That night before Thanksgiving has a big reputation. I've never tried that night.
 

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Does anybody have any reports on the ease of getting laid due to Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday)?

Mardi Gras in the French Quarter in New Orleans is different than Mardi Gras in nearly any other city. I'd be more interested in reading non-New Orleans answers, but a New Orleans story would be welcomed if someone has one.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does anybody have any reports on the ease of getting laid due to Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday)?

Mardi Gras in the French Quarter in New Orleans is different than Mardi Gras in nearly any other city. I'd be more interested in reading non-New Orleans answers, but a New Orleans story would be welcomed if someone has one.
From what I hear lately and current arrest reports, Nola is now one of the easiest cities to become a crime victim in …
Decent girls will stay grouped, not a good environment to pull stray poon in
 

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From what I hear lately and current arrest reports, Nola is now one of the easiest cities to become a crime victim in …
Decent girls will stay grouped, not a good environment to pull stray poon in
New Orleans is a dangerous city in general. It's a high crime place due to the poverty of the area.

I went to New Orleans and went to French Quarter. I was there during a random weekend with no special events. It was wild. Women will flash their tits for beads year round in the French Quarter. I saw a lot of breasts that weekend.

If a random weekend with no special events was wild, I could not imagine Fat Tuesday or the 1-2 weeks leading up to Fat Tuesday as the whole Mardi Gras season. Fat Tuesday on the French Quarter has to be insane and not in a good way. It might not be ideal for getting poontang, though it's possible to get a ******* or a quickie in a back alley. Of course, in those back alleys in the French Quarter, people are urinating and vomiting too. Privacy is difficult to get in a back alley.

Pulling someone to a hotel room in New Orleans could happen or it could be possible to get a hook up within your own hotel as the logistics on that could work.

In cities besides New Orleans, there are Fat Tuesday celebrations at various bars. It's often more subdued because mostly everyone works on Ash Wednesday. It can't be compared to the Saturday of Halloween weekend or the night before Thanksgiving all too well.
 

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Many men think Halloween is an easy night for getting same night sex from a nightlife venue or private party.

Halloween falls on a Tuesday this year. More of the Halloween party type events were last night or will be tonight.

How successful have you been on Halloween?
 

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Many men think Halloween is an easy night for getting same night sex from a nightlife venue or private party.

Halloween falls on a Tuesday this year. More of the Halloween party type events were last night or will be tonight.

How successful have you been on Halloween?
I would say private parties are a safer bet cause you have the comfort of the safer environment, better logistic while girls have lower inhibitions due to the maska and make ups.

Me personally I enjoyed a lot halloween 2013 but probably cause I was in the right place and the right moment...and I was in my 20s.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If Jan. 1 is the most sex day, then that equates to most September birthdays?
 

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I would say private parties are a safer bet cause you have the comfort of the safer environment, better logistic while girls have lower inhibitions due to the maska and make ups.

Me personally I enjoyed a lot halloween 2013 but probably cause I was in the right place and the right moment...and I was in my 20s.
Private residence parties are usually a better option any night of the year as compared to a bar open to the general public. I also think it is true for Halloween as well.

Some guys swear by Halloween as a good night for getting same night sex from nightlife venues but Roosh in 2011 argued that Halloween was more about attention whorring than actual whorring.
 

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Private residence parties are usually a better option any night of the year as compared to a bar open to the general public. I also think it is true for Halloween as well.

Some guys swear by Halloween as a good night for getting same night sex from nightlife venues but Roosh in 2011 argued that Halloween was more about attention whorring than actual whorring.
If it was about attention oring in 2011 I dont even wanna think now....damn anyway really miss the early 10s.
 

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If it was about attention oring in 2011 I dont even wanna think now....damn anyway really miss the early 10s.
In the early 2010s, I was in my late 20s.

Halloween is often been more about attention whorring than actual whorring. I think that was even true in the 1980s-1990s.
 

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I have always preferred going out on NYD as opposed to NYE, sit, read the paper, reflect on the previous year and watch football. Most people out on NYD are the ones who are up to starting the year afresh, and not wasted from the night before. Much more peaceful and sociable on NYD, where NYE is just a messy drunken cliché. I did meet a really nice girl once but had somewhere else to be and didn't act on it
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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