She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm not surprised. In the 2010s, when I went out on the night of January 1 in Dallas, I found it dead and women were no more receptive that night than other regular nights during the year.Flat dead in DC
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's great. I think you did the right thing. NYE is the night of December 31. I agree that the night of December 31 (NYE) is amaetur night. This thread is about the night of January 1, last night. The first night out after the beginning of the year. The night of January 1 is supposed to have a different audience than amateur hour on December 31.I didn’t go out because NYE is a stupid amateur holiday and not worth the risk/price. I noticed a couple of my friends were fighting with their gfs due to NYE planning drama. Me and my girl did everything during the day and just stayed on the couch and watched football lol.
shvt, my bad lmao. I never knew people went out on January 1st unless it appeared on a weekend like this year. I live in a popular bar area of the city and it seemed tame last night.That's great. I think you did the right thing. NYE is the night of December 31. I agree that the night of December 31 (NYE) is amaetur night. This thread is about the night of January 1, last night. The first night out after the beginning of the year. The night of January 1 is supposed to have a different audience than amateur hour on December 31.
It's the biggest party night of the year typically.Why is Thanksgiving the easiest day of the year to get laid?
That's why Roosh originally wrote the article about the night of January 1 back in February 2011. He was making the point that the night of January 1 was an overlooked night in terms of getting laid via nightlife. He had personal success with it and it was an uncommon take. At the time I read the article, it was so persuasive to me that I tried it and even tried it a 2nd time. Both times it was dead and a not so good experience. It's possible I chose poorly on venues but I was going to venues in the most active parts of the city.I never knew people went out on January 1st unless it appeared on a weekend like this year. I live in a popular bar area of the city and it seemed tame last night.
Why is Thanksgiving the easiest day of the year to get laid?
That night before Thanksgiving has a big reputation. I've never tried that night.It's the biggest party night of the year typically.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
From what I hear lately and current arrest reports, Nola is now one of the easiest cities to become a crime victim in …Does anybody have any reports on the ease of getting laid due to Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday)?
Mardi Gras in the French Quarter in New Orleans is different than Mardi Gras in nearly any other city. I'd be more interested in reading non-New Orleans answers, but a New Orleans story would be welcomed if someone has one.
New Orleans is a dangerous city in general. It's a high crime place due to the poverty of the area.From what I hear lately and current arrest reports, Nola is now one of the easiest cities to become a crime victim in …
Decent girls will stay grouped, not a good environment to pull stray poon in
I would say private parties are a safer bet cause you have the comfort of the safer environment, better logistic while girls have lower inhibitions due to the maska and make ups.Many men think Halloween is an easy night for getting same night sex from a nightlife venue or private party.
Halloween falls on a Tuesday this year. More of the Halloween party type events were last night or will be tonight.
How successful have you been on Halloween?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Private residence parties are usually a better option any night of the year as compared to a bar open to the general public. I also think it is true for Halloween as well.I would say private parties are a safer bet cause you have the comfort of the safer environment, better logistic while girls have lower inhibitions due to the maska and make ups.
Me personally I enjoyed a lot halloween 2013 but probably cause I was in the right place and the right moment...and I was in my 20s.
If it was about attention oring in 2011 I dont even wanna think now....damn anyway really miss the early 10s.Private residence parties are usually a better option any night of the year as compared to a bar open to the general public. I also think it is true for Halloween as well.
Some guys swear by Halloween as a good night for getting same night sex from nightlife venues but Roosh in 2011 argued that Halloween was more about attention whorring than actual whorring.
In the early 2010s, I was in my late 20s.If it was about attention oring in 2011 I dont even wanna think now....damn anyway really miss the early 10s.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.