"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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manfromitaly

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Ok guys now I'm curious to hear your opinions and every day I can think of one haha

It often happens that girls who follow me on social networks unfollow me for no reason It would seem that they are not interested

but once I dated a girl who years ago removed me from facebook and revealed to me that she always liked me

Now I don't want to say that it's always like this but how likely is it that someone will stop following you just because for example I've never tried to know them?

Has something like this ever happened to you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bingo-Player

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Don't listen to what women say always look at what they are doing

Women are DEEP over thinkers and they usually make terrrible judgement calls on just about every walk of life its why the need strong men to lead them through life

Last night I pulled a 21 year old Hb 7 In a club , went back to her hotel was fingering her in the lift she was moaning tell me how wet she was getting and telling me how naughty I am

We swapped instas after and I left , this morning I wake up to find she has removed me :rofl:

Fvck knows what is going through her mind this morning probably something along the lines of " I can't believe what that guy made me do "
But I practically guarantee that if I ran into her again the outcome would be exactly the same and that is all I need to care about

Because despite her not knowing what she is doing , I KNOW I am doing something right because I am getting pu$$$$y
 

manfromitaly

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Don't listen to what women say always look at what they are doing

Women are DEEP over thinkers and they usually make terrrible judgement calls on just about every walk of life its why the need strong men to lead them through life

Last night I pulled a 21 year old Hb 7 In a club , went back to her hotel was fingering her in the lift she was moaning tell me how wet she was getting and telling me how naughty I am

We swapped instas after and I left , this morning I wake up to find she has removed me :rofl:

Fvck knows what is going through her mind this morning probably something along the lines of " I can't believe what that guy made me do "
But I practically guarantee that if I ran into her again the outcome would be exactly the same and that is all I need to care about

Because despite her not knowing what she is doing , I KNOW I am doing something right because I am getting pu$$$$y
Haha, well done! Yes, in fact, I don't mind when they remove me, I like to think that they do it because they expected me to do something, even if I'm wrong
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Don't listen to what women say always look at what they are doing

Women are DEEP over thinkers and they usually make terrrible judgement calls on just about every walk of life its why the need strong men to lead them through life

Last night I pulled a 21 year old Hb 7 In a club , went back to her hotel was fingering her in the lift she was moaning tell me how wet she was getting and telling me how naughty I am

We swapped instas after and I left , this morning I wake up to find she has removed me :rofl:

Fvck knows what is going through her mind this morning probably something along the lines of " I can't believe what that guy made me do "
But I practically guarantee that if I ran into her again the outcome would be exactly the same and that is all I need to care about

Because despite her not knowing what she is doing , I KNOW I am doing something right because I am getting pu$$$$y
Preach this.

I've always said, social media if for orbiters and women's pretend lives.

If they want to get naughty, they want to do it off the grid. How are you supposed to be their dirty little secret if you're all over their social media?

Back in the day, I'd sometimes get friends requests on FB from women I was dating. I'd just ignore. I'd think of it as a sh1t test.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NealIRC

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Ok guys now I'm curious to hear your opinions and every day I can think of one haha

It often happens that girls who follow me on social networks unfollow me for no reason It would seem that they are not interested

but once I dated a girl who years ago removed me from facebook and revealed to me that she always liked me

Now I don't want to say that it's always like this but how likely is it that someone will stop following you just because for example I've never tried to know them?

Has something like this ever happened to you?
Oh it's true.

If a woman adds you on Facebook, and you accept, but a week goes by and you never messaged her, you saw she removed you, then she liked you.
 

manfromitaly

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Oh it's true.

If a woman adds you on Facebook, and you accept, but a week goes by and you never messaged her, you saw she removed you, then she liked you.
I don't know if you were being ironic but that's the way it is, I think that if I add a girl on social media she might think I'm interested, obviously if I don't write to her then she'll be disappointed and she might unfollow you
 

manfromitaly

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How does anyone find time for social media apps?
Unfortunately I happen to use them often, I work until 4 in the afternoon and then I go to the gym, plus I have 2 days off a week and I don't go out very often,

as a result I'm often on social media and I don't want to

I live in a small town of 60k and being 32 I don't go out much
 

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Women are DEEP over thinkers and they usually make terrible judgement calls on just about every walk of life its why the need strong men to lead them through life
Couldn't agree more. Every girl that I've ever dated tried to find some kind of deep meaning in things that I would say...even in random stuff that was said jokingly. Sometimes the "hidden meaning" that they managed to uncover would be completely bewildering.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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