Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Or write like one.Or simply grow up and don't act like a 12 year old.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Or getting permanent brain damage if we're really trying to talk about "whats worse". The back part of our heads are soft and don't offer protection like the front part of our skull.. yet I've seen people get punched in the back of the head while unconscious multiple times, stomped in the back of the head.. That sht can change someone forever/ even paralyze them.You know what’s even worse ... taking knuckles to your mouth.... with no guard... and breaking several teeth....
Fighting can be very expensive and life changing.... avoid at all costs unless you have no choice. Seen two guys get into a scuffle at a bar while on vacation. At any moment both of them could have simply walked away.....they kept at each other.... went outside. One punch thrown and the dude fell back and cracked his head off the curb. He passed away... other guy is now in state prison.
Yeah man. Not only did dating changed , society as a whole changed for the worst .You know what’s even worse ... taking knuckles to your mouth.... with no guard... and breaking several teeth....
Fighting can be very expensive and life changing.... avoid at all costs unless you have no choice. Seen two guys get into a scuffle at a bar while on vacation. At any moment both of them could have simply walked away.....they kept at each other.... went outside. One punch thrown and the dude fell back and cracked his head off the curb. He passed away... other guy is now in state prison.
Never heard of chapstick. I’ve heard of the lighter method though.Buy some chapstick and always keep it with you. If you get in a situation, put it in your hand and close your fist on it...your punch will be much harder than it normally would, almost as if you had brass knuckles due to having no give to it like a normal fist would.
If you ever wonder why everyone walks around with chapstick on them in the ghetto that's why.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A kick to the nuts is the surest knockout. And then yes, definitely the run away part. Avoiding cops is another benefit to this technique.try to knock them out asap and run away.
I heard you can make a v shape with your fingers and jab them in the eyes if you can do it unexpectedly when their guard is down.A kick to the nuts is the surest knockout. And then yes, definitely the run away part. Avoiding cops is another benefit to this technique.
I remember training that move. The thumb is on the underside and hits them in the throat, as well as a simultaneous crotch kick. It felt like something out of The Three Stooges, but was supposedly a samurai move. Japanese people have always been small in stature, thus their jiu jitsu contains a lot of dirty tricks like that, to help a smaller person defeat a larger opponent.I heard you can make a v shape with your fingers and jab them in the eyes if you can do it unexpectedly when their guard is down.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes that is where I heard the move originated from as well. Supposedly it's enough of a shock to their nervous system that it causes them to pass out.I remember training that move. The thumb is on the underside and hits them in the throat, as well as a simultaneous crotch kick. It felt like something out of The Three Stooges, but was supposedly a samurai move. Japanese people have always been small in stature, thus their jiu jitsu contains a lot of dirty tricks like that, to help a smaller person defeat a larger opponent.
A lighter also worksBuy some chapstick and always keep it with you. If you get in a situation, put it in your hand and close your fist on it...your punch will be much harder than it normally would, almost as if you had brass knuckles due to having no give to it like a normal fist would.
If you ever wonder why everyone walks around with chapstick on them in the ghetto that's why.
All this assumes you know the person, it’s all caught on cctv in a public area, the police catch and charge you, you live in the same vicinity as the enemy, it’s a brutal fight/he’s big/has weapon/friends, one or both know how to fight.Yeah man. Not only did dating changed , society as a whole changed for the worst .
The way i grew up and was brought up was all about respect and honor. If we would be walking together down the street and you would get into a fight, i would actually be the referee and let you guys duke it out. Nowadays we would jump that dude together and break all his bones . A honest fight is a thing of the past.
Eli, remember you are one fight away from permanent, life altering damage . And i say that as a former professional fighter.
-You either win, they'll return and take revenge. Meaning you'll have to look behind you all the time.
-You win ,they'll call the cops on you amd now your future is in the hands of a judge or even worse; a jury.
-You lose and you'll lose confidence, and perhaps teeth, eye, brain damage ect.
All three are also possible with the same newly created person/enemy. A simple "watcha looking at" can escalate into dramatic proportions.
My greatest victories were the fights i ran away from!
Nowedays there are cameras everywhere. Not only public cameras also ring doorbells, people have mobile phones and dashcams. And lets mot forget the power of multiple witnesses against you. I've been in fights ,got arrested and apparently a few random John Doe's gave statements against me. The judge didn't budge .All this assumes you know the person, it’s all caught on cctv in a public area, the police catch and charge you, you live in the same vicinity as the enemy, it’s a brutal fight/he’s big/has weapon/friends, one or both know how to fight.
Rarely the case you will tick any of these boxes and you shouldn’t be fighting if any of the above are true.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.