sounds like u have the tools but dont know how to market urself...
girls do care abt instgram then u should invest into making a great one. professional photoshoots around the world, showcase ur possession, clothes, friends etc...surely ull be miles ahead of all the other guys if uve actually got money and the lifestyle.
u have money so do you wear designer clothes - gucci, louis vuitton etc? do u drive a cool car? why are all your friends male, find a way to make female friends eg go to salsa class and post pics around females to look more balanced
also what they said about confident alpha body language and vibe is 100% true, this comes before everything...before the instagram, before the resources, are u able to look women in the eyes confidently, read them and give them a 'cool chilled out vibe' which isnt try hard, speak with a masculine rhythmic tone, etc
outside of work, what makes u different? do u play in a band? do any cool sports? boat sailing? u need to have something which makes u stand out, beyond 9-5 work, to help build ur identity and give u something interesting to talk abt and post abt on instagram...and make it seem like ur life is great without girls