"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Actual flake, low IOI or sh!t test

darksprezzatura

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It all goes back to that old two strikes rule on Sosuave. Relevant to this day imo.

I've found that the only way to internalize abundance is to consistently be approaching other women. Like 10 a week absolute minimum. If you don't do that, you're going to start getting hung up on individual chicks.
As my man @DEEZEDBRAH says, every set is practice. Have fun with it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Visionist

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As my man @DEEZEDBRAH says, every set is practice. Have fun with it.
"Something Something Baeeeees"

Op are you in a city? Big? You can meet several girls each day just running your own errands. No excuse for simpery there. More opportunities in general.

Once the virus fücks off.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Generally use approach but re-working OLD game since Covid hysteria.

Set up a date with a girl to hike. She flaked a little while ago but said she want to stay in touch and sent Instagram handle.

I only have one plate spinning right now so I’m looking to find one/two more.

My instinct is to send my IG handle in a reply, tomorrow. If she follows then I’ll follow back. And try and set up a first date next week. Otherwise, NEXT.

That said, any other thoughts on a brief reply to pass what I suspect is sh!t test #1?
I waa watching Aaron Clarey older brother with Elkington. Aaron stated, 200% matches even those who were vid chat dates will flake. Its free attention.

Also predicted that the new "your creepy" = he's not social distancing. The new attacks on approach and game irl.


If she’s flaking i next. My **** won't suck it self. The goat status of game is next set. Even after pulling.

I skull ****ed a girl and on the way down to my car, I'm opening new sets. I lead. She follows or next. Similarly, hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day.

I block delete numbers. I wont toot my horn and say pandemic isn't a *****. Cold approach irl atm is game on hard mode. I still do it. OLD is cucked. She is either dtf or next. I don't care its pandemic or she's on a worker visa at risk of deportation.


Fellas need to be savage. I am taking my D out.
 

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Flaky behavior – stop contacting, walk away.

Mind Games – stop contacting, walk away

Low interest - stop contacting, walk away.

Loss of interest in sex - stop contacting, walk away.

Not available to go on a date and doesn't offer an alternative ? - stop contacting, walk away.
I really wish this could be communicated and followed by every single male out there. This would totally change the dating scene.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheGambino

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Flaky behavior – stop contacting, walk away.

Mind Games – stop contacting, walk away

Low interest - stop contacting, walk away.

Loss of interest in sex - stop contacting, walk away.

Not available to go on a date and doesn't offer an alternative ? - stop contacting, walk away.
Amen.
 

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Tell her to hit you up if she changes her mind and do not give your IG or follow her. She has your number she knows how to contact you.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Tell her to hit you up if she changes her mind and do not give your IG or follow her. She has your number she knows how to contact you.
+1

I have been told that my methods are savage. There is no following her ig. It's smash or next. Blow me or blow me out. Yes, a man is going to take Ls but no greater L then wasted time. Far too many fellas are at her beck and call. Post wall. Got some other man's crotch fruit and captain phaggotree is there. There is a epic amount of left over women on the rise. Quite frankly, I can't wait to see the aftermath.
 

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Generally use approach but re-working OLD game since Covid hysteria.

Set up a date with a girl to hike. She flaked a little while ago but said she want to stay in touch and sent Instagram handle.

I only have one plate spinning right now so I’m looking to find one/two more.

My instinct is to send my IG handle in a reply, tomorrow. If she follows then I’ll follow back. And try and set up a first date next week. Otherwise, NEXT.

That said, any other thoughts on a brief reply to pass what I suspect is sh!t test #1?
Tell her to message you if she gets bored and wants some fresh diiiiiick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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