course they would they want to know you desire them, and hoped youd spend resources on them
texting is a weak mans game of no return, it should be limited to 4-5 messages here and there
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What's the best way to ask a girl out over text
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texting is a weak mans game of no return, it should be limited to 4-5 messages here and there
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Nah, get with the times bro. You seem like you are stuck in a time warp. That advice is great in 1995 not so great in 2021.
EyeBRollin
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That’s using texting as a crutch. Yes they both can work but why make it easier on her? The point of calling is to gauge her interest. How excited does she sound? People can’t easily bullshyt their way through voice inflection.
mrgoodstuff
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Great. A babe into you craves the sound of your voice. She's highly suggestable because she wants to be round you.
UPDATE
I asked her and I think it's a no. I'll wait till next week then forget about it.
Here is an audio of how it went, what do you think?
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1CBI-Yp1nqEjlBauN8ApvG_O8HYpavBSP/view?usp=sharing
@BackInTheGame78 @billtx49 @EyeBRollin @Roober
I asked her and I think it's a no. I'll wait till next week then forget about it.
Here is an audio of how it went, what do you think?
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1CBI-Yp1nqEjlBauN8ApvG_O8HYpavBSP/view?usp=sharing
@BackInTheGame78 @billtx49 @EyeBRollin @Roober
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
mrgoodstuff
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Forget about it. Wheres your self respect?
Okay. but did I ask properly
mrgoodstuff
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Fvck properly. Those "bad boys" they give their body to aint' doing a damn thing "properly"...
mrgoodstuff
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A "bad boy" ain't necessarily a bad dude. He has personal power because he knows his worth. Blue pill, jealous and the f word hates to see this.
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This is why you don't cal unless you are confident and sure of yourself. You sounded afraid and nervous. Didn't matter what you said, it was likely going to be a no because of it.
This is another reason why unless you are really good on the phone that you should text until you feel more comfortable doing it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So this is a sure no? I didn't know I sounded nervous. Anyway it's an experience to learn from
getting with the times, and being a man and leading your domain is two different things.
messaging is a womans game. led by women, phones are a womans domain.
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Not typically... I know people don't like Corey Wayne, but his approach on dates is simple... "Create an opportunity for sex to happen"
After you've seen her a couple times, mornings are okay. Early on, it's not likely to create an opportunity for sex.
