What's the best way to ask a girl out over text

[derby1]

That has zero to do with the way you ask them out. Zero. If so they would never even go on a first date with you.

course they would they want to know you desire them, and hoped youd spend resources on them

texting is a weak mans game of no return, it should be limited to 4-5 messages here and there

 

[BackInTheGame78]

course they would they want to know you desire them, and hoped youd spend resources on them

texting is a weak mans game of no return, it should be limited to 4-5 messages here and there

Nah, get with the times bro. You seem like you are stuck in a time warp. That advice is great in 1995 not so great in 2021.

 

[EyeBRollin]

That has zero to do with the way you ask them out. Zero. If so they would never even go on a first date with you.

And this is a recent problem, not one that I normally have, and one that appears to be turning around slowly. And texting has always worked fine in that regard. So has calling. It simply makes 0 difference.

Nah, get with the times bro. You seem like you are stuck in a time warp. That advice is great in 1995 not so great in 2021.

That’s using texting as a crutch. Yes they both can work but why make it easier on her? The point of calling is to gauge her interest. How excited does she sound? People can’t easily bullshyt their way through voice inflection.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Correct. The phone is so you can hear the enthusiasm or lack there of in her voice.

Great. A babe into you craves the sound of your voice. She's highly suggestable because she wants to be round you.

 

[Dam44]

UPDATE

I asked her and I think it's a no. I'll wait till next week then forget about it.

Here is an audio of how it went, what do you think?
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1CBI-Yp1nqEjlBauN8ApvG_O8HYpavBSP/view?usp=sharing
@BackInTheGame78 @billtx49 @EyeBRollin @Roober

 

[mrgoodstuff]

UPDATE

I asked her and I think it's a no. I'll wait till next week then forget about it.

Here is an audio of how it went, what do you think?
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1CBI-Yp1nqEjlBauN8ApvG_O8HYpavBSP/view?usp=sharing
@BackInTheGame78 @billtx49 @EyeBRollin @Roober

Forget about it. Wheres your self respect?

 

[Dam44]

Forget about it. Wheres your self respect?

Okay. but did I ask properly

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Okay. but did I ask properly

Fvck properly. Those "bad boys" they give their body to aint' doing a damn thing "properly"...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Fvck properly. Those "bad boys" they give their body to aint' doing a damn thing "properly"...

A "bad boy" ain't necessarily a bad dude. He has personal power because he knows his worth. Blue pill, jealous and the f word hates to see this.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

UPDATE

I asked her and I think it's a no. I'll wait till next week then forget about it.

Here is an audio of how it went, what do you think?
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1CBI-Yp1nqEjlBauN8ApvG_O8HYpavBSP/view?usp=sharing
@BackInTheGame78 @billtx49 @EyeBRollin @Roober

This is why you don't cal unless you are confident and sure of yourself. You sounded afraid and nervous. Didn't matter what you said, it was likely going to be a no because of it.

This is another reason why unless you are really good on the phone that you should text until you feel more comfortable doing it.

 

[Dam44]

This is why you don't cal unless you are confident and sure of yourself. You sounded afraid and nervous. Didn't matter what you said, it was likely going to be a no because of it.

This is another reason why unless you are really good on the phone that you should text until you feel more comfortable doing it.

So this is a sure no? I didn't know I sounded nervous. Anyway it's an experience to learn from

 

[derby1]

Nah, get with the times bro.

getting with the times, and being a man and leading your domain is two different things.

messaging is a womans game. led by women, phones are a womans domain.

 

[Roober]

Thank you

What is the best time for dates? Can they happen in the morning

Not typically... I know people don't like Corey Wayne, but his approach on dates is simple... "Create an opportunity for sex to happen"

After you've seen her a couple times, mornings are okay. Early on, it's not likely to create an opportunity for sex.

 

[bat soup]

Just ask her out as soon as possible and keep the texting to an absolute minimum. If she gives you excuses, consider her not interested and move on.