GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
Yeah that's what I'm saying man I like slim women and that's why I want to get lean ideally
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)
- Thread starter cola
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You got this. You can do it.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
Are you lean? Anyways what's funny is something I heard from bill Burr podcast today. Guy said he gets more/hotter looking women as he got older compared to when he was good looking and younger. Bill replied saying women are less intimidated of less good looking guys that are fat, etc and will give them a chance and that's only reason why they're going for him...combined with there are women who will go for those 'types' of course cause again they're intimidated of good looking guys..Someone mentioned to this thread to me as well.
I think part of this true, but what's also true which is my case, I am more experienced in dating now compared to before when I was being shy/****y/expecting women to come to me(feminine way of approaching) for being good looking when I was younger, etc which is ironic. Cause ideally having both would be optimal. I didn't get what dude mean when he said that but j think I've heard that from guys before. What's your opinion on that?
No, I'm not lean like another female on Sosuave that posts a couple times a month.
But what has changed is how much stronger and confident I am and look.
I hold myself erect with shoulders back and I'm more comfortable walking slower.
I'm very athletic/quick and have fast reflexes with excellent hand/eye coordination and both genders have given me IOIs and approached me.
I'm focused on tweaking my internal body chemistry and strangling the debt that I've been unusually carrying since the breakup of my engagement and family members' deaths.
I wouldn't know if not being leaner wouldn't get me a relationship or staying more stout/athletic would because I usually only start relationships with me as the one pursuing and I'm on my purpose and chasing excellence right now. And funny enough, my body shape is leaning out just by concentrating on what I consume(food and money/budget wise)
I found a girl with my body type and size on the internet the other day. I can find her again and post it. She is a U.K. shotput athlete. I found her picture trying to find another picture for a thread on sosuave the other day.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lamath
Master Don Juan
For me something like amuse mastery is pretty good when women criticized me.
When women tell me what a real man should be, i laugh it out and say yeah sure you know what a real man should be.
Yeah you have a lot of experience being a real man right?
I never let ppl define me or my actions, i do and say what i want , i own up to it and if you dont like it idc.
Shaming and criticizing are control tactics, dont let it happen.
I agree.
Some guys let other guys do it to them here and all I can think is... defend yourself!
If there's anywhere to start practicing defending yourself...its here...on the anonymous, safe internet.
And still you don't see guys defend themselves.
Why not be confident here at the very least? Practice here on sosuave.
lamath
Master Don Juan
I dont even think defending yourself is needed, ngaf or butt hurt is all that is needed.
Defending yourself is often a sign of gaf what other thinks, debating is good but defending yourself signs of a need for validation and acceptance to me.
Tend to see lots of wannabe bully here too, compensatting for how they are in real life.
Those i have a really hard time with
the bullies here throw me off for maybe 5 minutes and then I pick out the real message in their message and I always learn from it.
Some are predictable.
I don't have a halo over my head like I'm an angel.
I can remember being mean to others and its more valuable as a woman to keep your mouth shut and learn the lessons. irl.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Over-compensation and projection for issue and insecurities they have themselves.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
hey man, at least they are here(at least I am here) learning and trying to calibrate and improve.
I'm not in any direct competition with any man on this board to get women in this immediate area of Canada so I'm not a threat that I'm going to steal anyone's woman where they are.
You had a stellar post the other day, I wish it would go viral across the internet or Rollo could read it and blog/talk about it.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Yes and also lots of very good poster still here, but those bully are often counter-productive swinging the projection on how they wish they could be.
Thanks i like the intellectual stimulation, i wish i could be more articulated.
Written expression is not my forte.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
You threw me off are you a chick? Question for any lean good looking guys who gets pretty chicks consistently
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Yeah she’s a chick. She posted her pics here wayyy earlier on in the thread.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I got no idea honestly.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
Dude I would never cruise around Cosmo forums about womens game wtf lol
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I’d rather not lol....
Female game at this point is literally just women conspiring. That’s it.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
They don't use 'game' on men they're into tho lol they submit ..as long as he leads
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.