"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thechamp

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My father was green beret soldier and trained with the gurkhas so I don’t need a lecture about being a man , and yes I’m still working the media is not over blowing this this is ****ing real!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My father was green beret soldier and trained with the gurkhas so I don’t need a lecture about being a man , and yes I’m still working the media is not over blowing this this is ****ing real!!!
Yeah, and my father was a POW for 11 years in the worst military prison in world. Made Auschwitz look like a 5-star hotel lol. Doesn’t mean **** though, most things about being a man I had to learn on my own, not through him. Quit riding off the coattails of someone else’s success/masculinity. That’s possibly the most unmanly thing you can do.
 

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I never understood it when people say that they just enjoy making people feel better.
There are people out there that want to help others. I suffer from unfortunately, a lot of empathy and I can feel very sorry for people in certain situation to the point where I help people out that i do not actually like. It's more like easing a pain, than gaining pleasure i'd say.

I still stand by what i say about doctors and nurses though, most of them hate it, and i understand why.
 

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There are people out there that want to help others. I suffer from unfortunately, a lot of empathy and I can feel very sorry for people in certain situation to the point where I help people out that i do not actually like. It's more like easing a pain, than gaining pleasure i'd say.

I still stand by what i say about doctors and nurses though, most of them hate it, and i understand why.
I second your statement about doctors, I realized that about the medical industry in recent years. It’s really just a job to most of them. That’s why I completely disagree with the sentiment about “finding a career you like” because in the end, work is work lol.

But yeah, I have a lot of empathy as well. I just don’t have a lot of sympathy. People will use and abuse that. I can control whether or not I feel guilt due to how my life was growing up, and usually I only choose to feel guilt if I’m actually in the wrong. It may seem arrogant to say, but I’m usually not. If I am, I always apologize instead of falling back on my ego. I’m not gonna let someone guilt me into helping them. I have way too much pride and dignity for that nowadays lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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‘Finding a career you like’ or are ‘passionate about’ might well be how some medical careers start, especially nursing, but when the patients you cared about start dying on you, at some point that mindset disappears …
If you’re seeing one, Its a big reason why no one takes care of you like a nurse when their need to care for another is no longer satisfied professionally…
 

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@Thechamp you don't need to tell us that you are not alpha, we already know that you are not alpha (whatever that means). Here's a piece of advice next time you try to virtue signal try not insulting other people, the key board jockeys on this forum do many different jobs that bring value to society and are helping during this virus shiit. I know that you are scared out of your woke mind but just drink a warm glass of chocolate soy milk and eat some tasty tofu while you watch some Oprah reruns and relax. Don't worry the adults like the key board jockeys on this forum will take care of this virus.
 

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Zuckerberg and Bezos are both sociopaths. Zuck stole Facebook and ****ed over the real brains behind it, and Bezos is practically seeking world domination. If that’s your definition of ‘alpha’, I’d think you better reconsider lol
What’s your definition of an alpha? Some guy who selflessly donates his last dollar to a women’s shelter? Alphas are not nice guys.
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What a dumb fuking thread.. How old are you? 12 or something.

We are not men because we are not in the medical field trained professionals..

OP truely is a troll retard of the highest order!!
but you are not a man because youre not sacrificing and saving lifes of countless people
 

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Wait a year.

That's when it will be easy to see who the "alphas" are and who would be dead without them.

Especially if this turns into a monetary reset, as many are predicting.

These are those "hard times" people talk about that "make hard men."

Only time will tell.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What a load of crap I am seeing in this thread from some people. Bezos is alpha? Bezos is an innovator and he got half of his money ripped by a woman who did nothing for him and he still goes after average women LOL talk about being alpha.

I give you a car mechanic who has his own shop and a wife and kids who is more alpha in himself than Bezos. When will guys here understand having power or having resources or being physically dominant, none of them, on its own, can make you alpha? Humans and human life is more complicated than that. You have to be able to balance and be very flexible. The alphas are the most adaptive creatures, the real ones. A guy with money who thinks long term and invests in himself and his future knows he has to raise a structure to support him so he invests in other people's lives as well, makes their lives better, too. A guy who got power doesn't misuse it and helps other people is super more alpha in the eyes of everyone (including women) than most of our politicians who are just jackals stripping everyone off anything they can.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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