"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Field Report - HB7

darksprezzatura

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Met a girl from college.

Sweet. Acted childishly. Enthusiastic. Funny. Very feminine.

Took her on an adventure sport, she performed well. Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke. Intelligent.

Heart pumping, leaned in for a kiss. Felt resistance. Brushed it off, kept the evening going great. Lots of kino, she felt into it.

Red flags:

Diseases running in the family.
Mole on her eyelash makes edges her to HB6
Possible tumour history.
Army brat.
Big purse.
No real hobbies as such.
Planned a date on Sunday, she agreed - I had to cancel as I'm leaving. Asked her out today. She refused (has plans)

Her refusal flicked me off, only because she knows im leaving tomorrow, she didn't offer to reschedule or push for tomorrow, I ghosted her.

Chemistry was intense, spent hours together mountain climbing.

Planning to see other women and workout, but the feeling of loss of a bang seems intense especially after time spent together.

This place helps me refocus and acts as closure.

Her action spoke louder than her words.
Another one bites the dust.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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These red flags you listed.. they're red flags why?

If you like this chick give it one more shot man. It's nbd.
 

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Met a girl from college.

Sweet. Acted childishly. Enthusiastic. Funny. Very feminine.

Took her on an adventure sport, she performed well. Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke. Intelligent.

Heart pumping, leaned in for a kiss. Felt resistance. Brushed it off, kept the evening going great. Lots of kino, she felt into it.

Red flags:

Diseases running in the family.
Mole on her eyelash makes edges her to HB6
Possible tumour history.
Army brat.
Big purse.
No real hobbies as such.
Planned a date on Sunday, she agreed - I had to cancel as I'm leaving. Asked her out today. She refused (has plans)

Her refusal flicked me off, only because she knows im leaving tomorrow, she didn't offer to reschedule or push for tomorrow, I ghosted her.

Chemistry was intense, spent hours together mountain climbing.

Planning to see other women and workout, but the feeling of loss of a bang seems intense especially after time spent together.

This place helps me refocus and acts as closure.

Her action spoke louder than her words.
Another one bites the dust.
Why is a big purse a red flag?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Met a girl from college.

Sweet. Acted childishly. Enthusiastic. Funny. Very feminine.

Took her on an adventure sport, she performed well. Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke. Intelligent.

Heart pumping, leaned in for a kiss. Felt resistance. Brushed it off, kept the evening going great. Lots of kino, she felt into it.

Red flags:

Diseases running in the family.
Mole on her eyelash makes edges her to HB6
Possible tumour history.
Army brat.
Big purse.
No real hobbies as such.
Planned a date on Sunday, she agreed - I had to cancel as I'm leaving. Asked her out today. She refused (has plans)

Her refusal flicked me off, only because she knows im leaving tomorrow, she didn't offer to reschedule or push for tomorrow, I ghosted her.

Chemistry was intense, spent hours together mountain climbing.

Planning to see other women and workout, but the feeling of loss of a bang seems intense especially after time spent together.

This place helps me refocus and acts as closure.

Her action spoke louder than her words.
Another one bites the dust.
Foolish reasoning, but whatever you wish. You are now being as picky as the ladies.
 

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Foolish reasoning, but whatever you wish. You are now being as picky as the ladies.
Funny on twitter there was a post about how dating sites hard to find decent guys. I then posted about how women are too picky and list far too many qualifiers for being already damaged goods on old. Well female twitter users didnt like that and one even said they're picky because they dont want to be raped.
 

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Funny on twitter there was a post about how dating sites hard to find decent guys. I then posted about how women are too picky and list far too many qualifiers for being already damaged goods on old. Well female twitter users didnt like that and one even said they're picky because they dont want to be raped.
Yea, many dudes are becoming too feminine on their requirements just to have sex. It's unreal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I deleted her number and hit the gym.
Talked to a couple of more women, played some music and just kept her out of my mind.

By the end of the day she reinitiated contact and she is enthusiastic to meet today.

She blurted out, "we aren't having sex " .
We all know what that means.

I do think she's a cool girl to hang with so I'm just going to meet her to practice my game.

Let's see what happens boys.
 

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These red flags you listed.. they're red flags why?

If you like this chick give it one more shot man. It's nbd.
Im going for it. Thanks man.
I just prefer investing my time in a woman who shows high interest, instead of converting them from low interest to high interest.

Foolish reasoning, but whatever you wish. You are now being as picky as the ladies.
Since when is that a bad thing?

you want to bang her or make her your wife? Start out just looking to bang them and worry about relationship potential after that.
Good advice. Thank you for the reframe.

Why is a big purse a red flag?
In my experience the bigger a woman's purse is or her hoop earrings, the more deceptive she has been.
It makes no sense, but it's a pattern I've seen.
 

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Im going for it. Thanks man.
I just prefer investing my time in a woman who shows high interest, instead of converting them from low interest to high interest.



Since when is that a bad thing?



Good advice. Thank you for the reframe.



In my experience the bigger a woman's purse is or her hoop earrings, the more deceptive she has been.
It makes no sense, but it's a pattern I've seen.
You're just f ucking them dude. Stop being so picky. In an out a few times and then switch; if you like.
 

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You're just f ucking them dude. Stop being so picky. In an out a few times and then switch; if you like.
To fuvk them, I need to escalate physically.

I generally do that by making out.

Today I'll judge her body language and lean in when she continues to kino.

If she resists again, on to the next one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The woman flaked despite continuing to reinitiate contact

Note to self:

From a game point of view, women reinitiating contact does not imply high interest always.

Next step:

Began NC immediately. It's always better to make a move and judge a woman by her actions and reciprocations than words.

Keep lifting, keep spinning.

Date: 29/12/2019 - 60 days hard NC

Peace
 

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Just send her a picture of your **** and say 'well if you change your mind" and go NC.
But ONLY if you have a nice Johnson.
 
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