“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Field Report - HB7

darksprezzatura

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Met a girl from college.

Sweet. Acted childishly. Enthusiastic. Funny. Very feminine.

Took her on an adventure sport, she performed well. Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke. Intelligent.

Heart pumping, leaned in for a kiss. Felt resistance. Brushed it off, kept the evening going great. Lots of kino, she felt into it.

Red flags:

Diseases running in the family.
Mole on her eyelash makes edges her to HB6
Possible tumour history.
Army brat.
Big purse.
No real hobbies as such.
Planned a date on Sunday, she agreed - I had to cancel as I'm leaving. Asked her out today. She refused (has plans)

Her refusal flicked me off, only because she knows im leaving tomorrow, she didn't offer to reschedule or push for tomorrow, I ghosted her.

Chemistry was intense, spent hours together mountain climbing.

Planning to see other women and workout, but the feeling of loss of a bang seems intense especially after time spent together.

This place helps me refocus and acts as closure.

Her action spoke louder than her words.
Another one bites the dust.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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These red flags you listed.. they're red flags why?

If you like this chick give it one more shot man. It's nbd.
 

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Met a girl from college.

Sweet. Acted childishly. Enthusiastic. Funny. Very feminine.

Took her on an adventure sport, she performed well. Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke. Intelligent.

Heart pumping, leaned in for a kiss. Felt resistance. Brushed it off, kept the evening going great. Lots of kino, she felt into it.

Red flags:

Diseases running in the family.
Mole on her eyelash makes edges her to HB6
Possible tumour history.
Army brat.
Big purse.
No real hobbies as such.
Planned a date on Sunday, she agreed - I had to cancel as I'm leaving. Asked her out today. She refused (has plans)

Her refusal flicked me off, only because she knows im leaving tomorrow, she didn't offer to reschedule or push for tomorrow, I ghosted her.

Chemistry was intense, spent hours together mountain climbing.

Planning to see other women and workout, but the feeling of loss of a bang seems intense especially after time spent together.

This place helps me refocus and acts as closure.

Her action spoke louder than her words.
Another one bites the dust.
Why is a big purse a red flag?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Met a girl from college.

Sweet. Acted childishly. Enthusiastic. Funny. Very feminine.

Took her on an adventure sport, she performed well. Doesn't drink, doesn't smoke. Intelligent.

Heart pumping, leaned in for a kiss. Felt resistance. Brushed it off, kept the evening going great. Lots of kino, she felt into it.

Red flags:

Diseases running in the family.
Mole on her eyelash makes edges her to HB6
Possible tumour history.
Army brat.
Big purse.
No real hobbies as such.
Planned a date on Sunday, she agreed - I had to cancel as I'm leaving. Asked her out today. She refused (has plans)

Her refusal flicked me off, only because she knows im leaving tomorrow, she didn't offer to reschedule or push for tomorrow, I ghosted her.

Chemistry was intense, spent hours together mountain climbing.

Planning to see other women and workout, but the feeling of loss of a bang seems intense especially after time spent together.

This place helps me refocus and acts as closure.

Her action spoke louder than her words.
Another one bites the dust.
Foolish reasoning, but whatever you wish. You are now being as picky as the ladies.
 

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Foolish reasoning, but whatever you wish. You are now being as picky as the ladies.
Funny on twitter there was a post about how dating sites hard to find decent guys. I then posted about how women are too picky and list far too many qualifiers for being already damaged goods on old. Well female twitter users didnt like that and one even said they're picky because they dont want to be raped.
 

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Funny on twitter there was a post about how dating sites hard to find decent guys. I then posted about how women are too picky and list far too many qualifiers for being already damaged goods on old. Well female twitter users didnt like that and one even said they're picky because they dont want to be raped.
Yea, many dudes are becoming too feminine on their requirements just to have sex. It's unreal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I deleted her number and hit the gym.
Talked to a couple of more women, played some music and just kept her out of my mind.

By the end of the day she reinitiated contact and she is enthusiastic to meet today.

She blurted out, "we aren't having sex " .
We all know what that means.

I do think she's a cool girl to hang with so I'm just going to meet her to practice my game.

Let's see what happens boys.
 

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These red flags you listed.. they're red flags why?

If you like this chick give it one more shot man. It's nbd.
Im going for it. Thanks man.
I just prefer investing my time in a woman who shows high interest, instead of converting them from low interest to high interest.

Foolish reasoning, but whatever you wish. You are now being as picky as the ladies.
Since when is that a bad thing?

you want to bang her or make her your wife? Start out just looking to bang them and worry about relationship potential after that.
Good advice. Thank you for the reframe.

Why is a big purse a red flag?
In my experience the bigger a woman's purse is or her hoop earrings, the more deceptive she has been.
It makes no sense, but it's a pattern I've seen.
 

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Im going for it. Thanks man.
I just prefer investing my time in a woman who shows high interest, instead of converting them from low interest to high interest.



Since when is that a bad thing?



Good advice. Thank you for the reframe.



In my experience the bigger a woman's purse is or her hoop earrings, the more deceptive she has been.
It makes no sense, but it's a pattern I've seen.
You're just f ucking them dude. Stop being so picky. In an out a few times and then switch; if you like.
 

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You're just f ucking them dude. Stop being so picky. In an out a few times and then switch; if you like.
To fuvk them, I need to escalate physically.

I generally do that by making out.

Today I'll judge her body language and lean in when she continues to kino.

If she resists again, on to the next one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The woman flaked despite continuing to reinitiate contact

Note to self:

From a game point of view, women reinitiating contact does not imply high interest always.

Next step:

Began NC immediately. It's always better to make a move and judge a woman by her actions and reciprocations than words.

Keep lifting, keep spinning.

Date: 29/12/2019 - 60 days hard NC

Peace
 

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Just send her a picture of your **** and say 'well if you change your mind" and go NC.
But ONLY if you have a nice Johnson.
 
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