My alternative solution is don't get flaked on in the first place. If you are a man of value who knows how to make a relationship work, no woman will ever flake on you. I'm always fazed by flakes because I'm aware that a flake means the death of a unique opportunity.
The absolute best solution is to take measures to avoid flaking. Demonstration of higher value is the best way to achieve this. A demonstration of higher value is subjective. What is high value for one woman is not high value for another.
Demonstrating higher value is the best way to reduce the percentage of interactions with early stage flakes, but it is impossible to eliminate all flakes. I think most guys would be happy reducing their flake percentages.
On apps, DHV can be displayed from picture selection. Pictures of nice muscles and solid ab definition will help a lot. Lifestyle markers of affluence are usually good. If real life cold approaching is used, one's persona and vibe will have to carry it.
Higher rates of flakiness with OLD, in my opinion.
Also, never accept anything less than definite plans.
Some of flaking is tied into the methods used to meet women.
If a man is using apps to meet women, there is no interpersonal investment in the interaction on the woman's part and the potential for flaking is higher. With cold approaching, there is still a decent amount of flaking that occurs, but it is a little reduced from apps, where she really has nothing to go on other than interactions behind an electronic screen. When meeting women via social circle, you're usually bound to get more humane treatment, simply because there will be some social consequences for her being rude. She doesn't want to deal with the blowback from her social circle. When a woman flakes or treats a man poorly from an app interaction or a cold approach interaction, her social circle is not informed of her bad behavior.
In a cold approach, I get a woman to agree to definite plans first, then collect contact information.
A lot of guys hate when women flake on them, myself included but the funny thing is the same women who flake on guys also flake on their female friends. I know a few women who all have “flakey” friends. Can’t count on them to show up to anything they tell me. It’s usually the really hot ones. These people have no integrity and should be dealt with accordingly.
Men do not have the information about how a woman behaves with her friends. It's a great unknown. She might act the same way towards her friends. I agree that it would be good information to know.
And this is y I try and hire middle aged men for any job I really need to get done
I consider this a wise perspective for a hiring manager. A lot of company go out of their way to get non-white males hired. In my experience as a white collar worker, I have seen demonstrations of preference being given to female and non-white candidates. I've lost out on jobs to non-white females regularly, even when I was more qualified. I'm not even 40 yet.