Was I too forward with this text?

[99Z0RN]

I instantly regretted sending that last text, not sure if it made her uncomfortable or not. I’ve been out with her a few times and we made out once. Any advice? Should I apologize?

 

[lamath]

Mmmmm too direct.

Bad taste.

 

[99Z0RN]

Mmmmm too direct.

Bad taste.

Yeah, I know it was. Should I apologize?

 

[lamath]

Yeah, I know it was. Should I apologize?

I would not.

 

[99Z0RN]

Why what would you do?

 

[sazc]

Do nothing
She hasn't said anything negative about it, carry on as usual and watch your choice in words for a bit, until you 'get there'

 

[RickTheToad]

Depends on how kinky and direct she is; as well as her interest level. What her age?

 

[99Z0RN]

Depends on how kinky and direct she is; as well as her interest level. What her age?

Shes 23 and goes to church every Sunday..

 

[99Z0RN]

Do nothing
She hasn't said anything negative about it, carry on as usual and watch your choice in words for a bit, until you 'get there'

True, I still feel like it was way too direct on my part though

 

[lamath]

Do nothing
She hasn't said anything negative about it, carry on as usual and watch your choice in words for a bit, until you 'get there'

This

 

[Robert28]

Do nothing
She hasn't said anything negative about it, carry on as usual and watch your choice in words for a bit, until you 'get there'

Most women these days aren’t going to tell you when you’ve turned them off or that something you did bothered them. Just because she replied and didn’t say anything about it doesn’t mean she won’t head for the hills out of nowhere. You really have to be paying attention at all times what you say and do because they’ll scare off easily. You can be replaced for the next guy within the snap of a finger.

 

[Igetit!]

I would not.

Agreed....

For damn sure DON'T APOLOGIZE. Apologizing would be worse than making the comment in the first place.

Just do like Sazc said...don't do anything and move on. Just don't bring it up and don't do it again.

 

[99Z0RN]

Most women these days aren’t going to tell you when you’ve turned them off or that something you did bothered them. Just because she replied and didn’t say anything about it doesn’t mean she won’t head for the hills out of nowhere. You really have to be paying attention at all times what you say and do because they’ll scare off easily. You can be replaced for the next guy within the snap of a finger.

That’s why I’m considering apologizing. I’m looing more for a long term girlfriend anyway

 

[RickTheToad]

I wouldn't apologize. That's actually worse then what you typed. Just let it go and don't bring it up. At 23, it maybe something she's okay with. Church girl? Interesting. You know, they're sexual freaks... Right?

 

[99Z0RN]

I wouldn't apologize. That's actually worse then what you typed. Just let it go and don't bring it up. At 23, it maybe something she's okay with. Church girl? Interesting. You know, they're sexual freaks... Right?

Is that right? I had her over the other day and I couldn’t get her clothes off. Good kisser though

 

[Robert28]

That’s why I’m considering apologizing. I’m looing more for a long term girlfriend anyway

Apologizing will just dig you a deeper hole.

 

[99Z0RN]

Apologizing will just dig you a deeper hole.

How do though? I don’t really understand why

 

[RickTheToad]

Is that right? I had her over the other day and I couldn’t get her clothes off. Good kisser though

She's a tease. ASR. Keep pushing, but when she says no, backup. You can always try again a few minutes later. As you're kissing, your hands should be caressing her body. Don't go directly to her boobs, pus or ass, but arms, thighs, midsection, and then explore.

 

[Robert28]

How do though? I don’t really understand why

You just ease off the sexual talk via text for awhile. Be sexual in person. Don’t tell her you’re about to go downtown on her, just so it when you finally get her naked.

 

[RickTheToad]

Apologizing will just dig you a deeper hole.

Agreed. All the direct an aggressiveness shown in that post about eat her out, will be negated. Just be careful on what you text. Who knows who's she shown that to so far.