"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Was I too forward with this text?

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She wasn't put off by your comment, so that's a W for you. But it won't always turn out this way.

I've also had some recent experiences with being worried have having been too direct. It doesn't make you feel good. That's why you posted here because it caused you some concern. And personally I need my mind to be worried about other things so I'm choosing to not be direct. Because I should:


I would say if you're going to take it further, do it in person. At least you got a chance to shoot your shot then.

All in all, just say things you're comfortable with saying. That way you eliminate the worry.
Yeah, that’s what I’ll do from now on. It’s not worth the worrying
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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