Caught girlfriend cheating just now.

[flowtheory]

@Music_czar I know right super shady! But the thing is if she was planning on dumping me why the hell would her best friend add me?

Maybe to tel you she’s shady and you don’t deserve that. Maybe she likes you

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Maybe to tel you she’s shady and you don’t deserve that. Maybe she likes you

@flowtheory my biggest fear is her keeping me as a bf but cheating on the side. Is there a possibility of this?

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@mrgoodstuff What are your thoughts?

 

[flowtheory]

@flowtheory my biggest fear is her keeping me as a bf but cheating on the side. Is there a possibility of this?

I was talking about in terms of her best friend.

As for your current girlfriend, do you have any factual evidence of foul play?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@mrgoodstuff What are your thoughts?

Other than the facebook thing are you a "secret"? Being a secret is not usually good at all unless you was a gigilo or something

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@flowtheory, I have lots of behavioral evidence when she goes to visit her friend she always texts and calls me. I asked her to call me and she said she would but never did. That was 3 days ago and I haven't messaged her since. Also she was on the phone to someone and as soon as I approached her she walked down the road to talk. And she said she was anxious about going on the trip to see her friend.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Other than the facebook thing are you a "secret"? Being a secret is not usually good at all unless you was a gigilo or something

@mrgoodstuff I'm meant to be her boyfriend. I feel like I'm being treated as a secret now lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@mrgoodstuff I'm meant to be her boyfriend. I feel like I'm being treated as a secret now lol

Are you out in front of people in public?

If shes hiding you all around it means shes ashamed or have something else shes with.

So it goes that they have to desire us for boyfriend. She has to intensly want that.

In the last 5 years ago they been flipping it. That makes you her bytch.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Are you out in front of people in public?

If shes hiding you all around it means shes ashamed or have something else shes with.

So it goes that they have to desire us for boyfriend. She has to intensly want that.

In the last 5 years ago they been flipping it. That makes you her bytch.

@mrgoodstuff well now ive become a ghost so to speak she won't be hearing from me ever again.

 

[Music_czar]

@Music_czar I know right super shady! But the thing is if she was planning on dumping me why the hell would her best friend add me?

It could mean nothing.. maybe she wants you as a Facebook friend after a meeting with you went well. Or maybe she’s keeping tabs on you, offering a second opinion to your gf.

Whatever the case, setting up a second fb without you on it is a super shady move designed by your gf to keep seeing/meeting guys on the side without your knowledge.

I’d suggest you keep banging her, but it’s obvious you’ve caught the feels or else you wouldn’t have started this thread.

Find a new woman and disengage from this one before you get hurt.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@mrgoodstuff well now ive become a ghost so to speak she won't be hearing from me ever again.

Self respect. Keeps your masculinity intact. When we allow ourselves to be treated poorly it blocks our blessings. It kills attraction others may have for you. Good man.

 

[In2theGame]

In2thegame I love this!! I'm gonna do it. Does it really hurt them that much? Could you explain how?

I was going to reply but he nailed it pretty well with this:

This.

you have no idea. Makes them take a hard look at their own actions and they feel deep loss and resentment towards the self. Imagine if you cheated and without a trace she went ghost in you and you never had a reason... intense right?

Also if you left a poem it gives her a reason to hold that against you, and use that piece to justify her behaviour because it’s revealing of your ‘dark side’. Also shows you’re hurt. Ghosting and NC shows you know your value.
How long did you two date?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@mrgoodstuff well now ive become a ghost so to speak she won't be hearing from me ever again.

I also think you can fvck her if your messing with other people. If shes a flakey plate throw her away.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You guys are ****ing great lol

 

[samspade]

Good luck bro. It's tempting to want to read her the riot act, but she will never, ever be wrong in her mind. She might confess and even cry, but it would be a show and purely for manipulation. Silence is golden. Blocking a woman feels weird at first, but after a while it feels great because you kept your manhood intact.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Good luck bro. It's tempting to want to read her the riot act, but she will never, ever be wrong in her mind. She might confess and even cry, but it would be a show and purely for manipulation. Silence is golden. Blocking a woman feels weird at first, but after a while it feels great because you kept your manhood intact.

@samspade I'm keeping her on facebook but it's gonna be dead and I'm not replying or reading her messages it will really screw with her head. She's back from her trip today apparently so I'm just waiting on her to tell me to come over. In which she will get no reply lol

 

[Chev.Chelios]

@Chev.Chelios why do woman stray from there partner?

because women are sex machines.
plain and simple...

exclusive relationships are a security blanket, sort of like a part time job. eventually the girl gets bored and wants new ****. no such thing as monogamy.

 

[samspade]

@samspade I'm keeping her on facebook but it's gonna be dead and I'm not replying or reading her messages it will really screw with her head. She's back from her trip today apparently so I'm just waiting on her to tell me to come over. In which she will get no reply lol

You're doing it wrong. In my opinion you need to block her - for you. Don't think about what's between her ears. Give yourself some piece of mind and just block her. If you're sitting around waiting for her to say something, you're in the wrong frame of mind.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

because women are sex machines.
plain and simple...

exclusive relationships are a security blanket, sort of like a part time job. eventually the girl gets bored and wants new ****. no such thing as monogamy.

All women dont love sex. Many dont. They have sex to acquire what they want.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@samspade I'm keeping her on facebook but it's gonna be dead and I'm not replying or reading her messages it will really screw with her head. She's back from her trip today apparently so I'm just waiting on her to tell me to come over. In which she will get no reply lol

Where is she returning on her trip from?